Was the plot a large plot like hers? My grandfather was cremated and he had a place, with a headstone, we could visit. However it was a lot smaller, no where near the size of Azaliyas. I understand it’s a family plot, but it’s still very odd that it’s been 2 years, still no headstone, yet the grandma has one who passed around a year later?
I do think her ashes have been given to different people places, as it appears they spit before she passed, so safiyya would have known, deep down, she wouldn’t be eventually in the family plot. I do wonder if they used some of her ashes in the tattoo they had after she passed.
