You lot are gonna think I’m on every single ones of Saff’s lives. I’m not but I do tune in quite a bit even if it’s 5 mins here and there. The other evening when she was getting people on with her, they were telling her what they were doing to raise money in Azaylia’s name (and I assume then giving the money to the foundation??). One girl said she was getting her friend to be her PT to get her in shape so she could complete the three peaks challenge. Saff didn’t seem to have a clue what this was and the girl gave a brief explanation and said she really wanted to be able to complete it in the 24 hours. Saff was like “wow.”
I have just now finally finished listening to the Happy Place pod (recorded weeks ago) and at the end Ashley is telling Ferne about this current challenge and then says that once it’s completed they are then doing the THREE PEAKS challenge but rather than driving between locations they will be cycling!! Is Saff not even involved in the plans for these challenges, even if she doesn’t want to/not allowed to partake?? She definitely did not even know what the three peaks was the other day.
He also said he’ll then be cycling from his house to Paris, trek the Sahara Desert and bike India. When is he going to have time to support Saf? Be at home (which I accept must be hard)? Spend quality time together? Get professional help? Therapy etc? I get therapy isn’t for everyone, but he can’t run from his grief forever. I’m not sure how healthy this mentality is that he has to physically “earn” his place in heaven to one day be with Azaylia. It’s all very concerning. I’m just not sure where Saf fits in to all these/his plans? Also surely his brother can’t do all these? He has a baby the same age as A at home and a wife/gf and presumably a job?
Given their situation and my previous dislike of Ash, I am trying to be fair and having said all that, he did give her a shout out. I just hope it was from his heart and “I thought that was important to say” isn’t from a PR point of view.
Sorry for my long rambling posts
I have just now finally finished listening to the Happy Place pod (recorded weeks ago) and at the end Ashley is telling Ferne about this current challenge and then says that once it’s completed they are then doing the THREE PEAKS challenge but rather than driving between locations they will be cycling!! Is Saff not even involved in the plans for these challenges, even if she doesn’t want to/not allowed to partake?? She definitely did not even know what the three peaks was the other day.
He also said he’ll then be cycling from his house to Paris, trek the Sahara Desert and bike India. When is he going to have time to support Saf? Be at home (which I accept must be hard)? Spend quality time together? Get professional help? Therapy etc? I get therapy isn’t for everyone, but he can’t run from his grief forever. I’m not sure how healthy this mentality is that he has to physically “earn” his place in heaven to one day be with Azaylia. It’s all very concerning. I’m just not sure where Saf fits in to all these/his plans? Also surely his brother can’t do all these? He has a baby the same age as A at home and a wife/gf and presumably a job?
Given their situation and my previous dislike of Ash, I am trying to be fair and having said all that, he did give her a shout out. I just hope it was from his heart and “I thought that was important to say” isn’t from a PR point of view.
Sorry for my long rambling posts
SO CALLED NURSE MUM moaning about children on cancer ward’s getting better facilities! Kathleen is more Nurse Ratched.
my stomach felt sick when Safiyya said she couldn't go in a supermarket because she'd see nappies. I couldn't live without my babies. How they do it I don't know. I always said if I lost my kids I'd go with them.
