Nah, I’m massively pissed off (ik it doesn’t concern me) but this whole saga makes me want to pull me hair out then shake Saf! She’s so used to his behaviour she’s excusing it as normal. ITS NOT NORMAL! It’s narcissistic, it’s selfish, it’s dismissive! Nothing about his behaviour has been normal for a long time. I get his been through hell and back, but there becomes a time when you’ve got to check yourself and think of the impact to your loved one(s). Saf is so lonely, it breaks my heart! I wish she could see what some of us see! I want to give her the biggest hug and let her know she’s worthy. His family SEEM unfair too! She only has them, Ashley and her brother and it’s only her brother that’s actually there. How can people let her be alone like this?!