Ashley Cain #2

[chocdip]

I think he's keen to be a gatekeeper of A and her death. He can't share that with saf even though as a, mum her grief is double his (that's just my opinion, she's carried her for 9 months it's a different bond). He has to be the public face of the grief, he's suffering the most, he's doing the most, he's on the biggest journey, he needs the attention the accolade the cheering, the podcasts, the foundation...... also, from the £1m plus they raised the hospital should've been given more than £20k. They probably spent more than that at her funeral. Be generous and gracious, you've over a million quid sat there that could be making a monumental to families right now.

I’m sorry if many do not agree but 20k out of all that money plus they are out raising funds daily is an insult

 

[Njrog19]

I’m sorry if many do not agree but 20k out of all that money plus they are out raising funds daily is an insult

To be fair they said this is just the start of what they are going to donate so who knows they could potentially end up giving hundreds of thousands over the coming months/years

 

[GobShyte64]

I feel awful for saying it… but do you ever wander if Azaylia was perfectly fine, no cancer, no death, just growing up like any other little girl… the only claim to fame they had was Ash stunts on reality tv.
its like, when A passed, their followers trebled, they have made a fortune out of it & everyone fawns over them like its some weird trauma porn!

Obviously theyd rather have Azaylia back than have all this but still…

 

[queenpoppy27]

I feel awful for saying it… but do you ever wander if Azaylia was perfectly fine, no cancer, no death, just growing up like any other little girl… the only claim to fame they had was Ash stunts on reality tv.
its like, when A passed, their followers trebled, they have made a fortune out of it & everyone fawns over them like its some weird trauma porn!

Obviously theyd rather have Azaylia back than have all this but still…

Nah, even though Ashley is a complete egotistical bleep, I’d safely say he would give up the Z lister life to have his daughter back and live a normal life working a 9-5 job.

 

[Allmyownopinion]

I really hope Saf or Ash never read or hear about this thread! Some of the comments about a grieving couple

I hope he does actually! Grieving doesn’t excuse treating his partner with utter contempt & emotional cruelty when she’s in unbearable pain! So might open his eyes a bit to what he’s doing & he can show the same care & compassion to her that he does to his adoring fans!

 

[Doingitforthegram]

His attitude to Saf makes me feel so off. The whole circus around a poor girl losing her life is the really weird side of social media for sure.

 

[GobShyte64]

Nah, even though Ashley is a complete egotistical bleep, I’d safely say he would give up the Z lister life to have his daughter back and live a normal life working a 9-5 job.

yeah, Im not saying he wouldnt. Any parent would. However, he's very well known since she passed. Even Saff, a normal girl from Nuneaton has over 1 mil followers on her insta purely because her daughter died. Trauma porn.

I hope he does actually! Grieving doesn’t excuse treating his partner with utter contempt & emotional cruelty when she’s in unbearable pain! So might open his eyes a bit to what he’s doing & he can show the same care & compassion to her that he does to his adoring fans!

I don't think he would see it like that tho. He would see it as we are attacking him and how dare people have these opinions.

 

[queenpoppy27]

Yeah they definitely wouldn’t have the following they have but people thrive off other peoples grief. There’s a woman who lives over here (Ireland) and has several threads on here who’s husband passed away last year due to cancer. She started off as a home interior page with little to no followers then documented his “journey” with cancer which gained her a large number of followers, now he’s dead and she’s had clothing lines and gets everything gifted to her and her kids. It’s so annoying because only for her husband dying she would be a nobody. Same to an extent with Ashley, although I’ve known him from his eotb days.

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

Let’s all hope something like Christmas will bring them together & closer

 

[Millieminion]

To be fair they said this is just the start of what they are going to donate so who knows they could potentially end up giving hundreds of thousands over the coming months/years

For a charity to work there needs to be full transparency from day 1,there was 1•6 million donated which as yet people have only seen 20 grand go to the cause which we donated for..I do think they will make it work and it will be successful but I also think that that 1•6 million should have gone directly to other families who are in the position they were in a few months ago and then work on their charity.

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

Saf is live now on instagram x

Suddenly ended

 

[Milfordcubicle]

Picked a bloody stupid time to go to Bristol when it’s Love Saves The Day festival and all the insta kids are up there

 

[username123!]

I thought it was a bit odd that they didn’t know it’s World leukaemia day? … wouldn’t it make sense to know that as you have a foundation that is in existence because of it

 

[getmeoutofhere]

For a charity to work there needs to be full transparency from day 1,there was 1•6 million donated which as yet people have only seen 20 grand go to the cause which we donated for..I do think they will make it work and it will be successful but I also think that that 1•6 million should have gone directly to other families who are in the position they were in a few months ago and then work on their charity.

The original donation page said any excess or if she couldn’t make it to Singapore would be passed on to other children. It never mentioned a foundation an ego project for Ashley which he would push Saf out of whilst getting all of his other family involved.

 

[cuncuncuncucncnncncnc]

In safs live her eyes seem so sad and you know what she seems like the most lovely person ever genuinely hope she doing ok and get support feeling alone is the worst feeling

 

[Njrog19]

In safs live her eyes seem so sad and you know what she seems like the most lovely person ever genuinely hope she doing ok and get support feeling alone is the worst feeling

She really does seem to have the sweetest soul

The original donation page said any excess or if she couldn’t make it to Singapore would be passed on to other children. It never mentioned a foundation an ego project for Ashley which he would push Saf out of whilst getting all of his other family involved.

I’m not against the foundation at all and I believe their intensions are pure with it. I just don’t like seeing saff pushed to the sidelines

 

[Buggeroff]

I’m so glad I found this thread.
Obviously I have no idea what they have been through and are going through so I don’t know how I’d react etc BUT it all seems very sad for saff she’s struggling massively. It’s like she only has her brother as support and nice people that are doing her hair and make up to make her feel nice.
Watching videos of the funeral Ashley is dancing away and she’s there broken. I just wanted to hop in the video and cuddle her.
He LOVES the sound of his own voice. I also agree I thought £20k to children’s hospital was a bit tight.

 

[gigilouxx]

I hope she has a nice day at soccer aid bless her. Her brother must think wtf like he's seeing his sister just shoved to the side. Ashley and his family seem very very intense, they appear to take over

 

[BettySpaghetty]

Poor poor saf. Ashley following all those accounts with scantily clad women is just awful. So publicly aswell.

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

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