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Ashley’s living for all these turn outs isn’t he releasing today’s finish early as he thinks It’s going to be a big one! His crossing a line from confident to cocky whilst poor saf will probably spend time with her brother today do a bike ride she doesn’t really want to do then whilst his greeting his public she will be on Instagram broken
 
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She was super slim before and I do wonder if he resents her physically changing
She openly said on her Instagram live before that she’d been massively comfort eating over the period when baby A had been really poorly 😢
 
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Ashley’s living for all these turn outs isn’t he releasing today’s finish early as he thinks It’s going to be a big one! His crossing a line from confident to cocky whilst poor saf will probably spend time with her brother today do a bike ride she doesn’t really want to do then whilst his greeting his public she will be on Instagram broken
Didn’t he say the finishing line was John o groats but I’m sure he said it’s Bristol, I’m honestly rubbish at geography but if he’s in Scotland and lives in the midlands whys he finishing in Bristol
 
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Didn’t he say the finishing line was John o groats but I’m sure he said it’s Bristol, I’m honestly rubbish at geography but if he’s in Scotland and lives in the midlands whys he finishing in Bristol
No today’s finish is Bristol Scotland will be about 10 days time his posting finishing times each day & location so people can then go and meet him
 
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Also notice he has no issues showing affection to his adoring public on Instagram every evening.

Also just gonna say I don’t know what I think of the brother obviously very honourable embarking on this with Ashley but he also seems to enjoy the limelight.
 
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I wonder and may god FORGIVE me, does he resent Safiyya, does he blame her for this path his life has gone down and that's why he can no longer connect with her. It's never "I love you, I'm Proud" it's always we.
Grief is a funny place and I can understand it to an extent, but if he is having thoughts like that exercise will absolutely not stop them
 
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I wonder have they spent so much time apart and what they have been through changes a person, are they finding it hard to re connect. I support they and the charity whole heartedly but I do agree they seem to be distant. And he really really should not be following them girls.
 
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I wonder have they spent so much time apart and what they have been through changes a person, are they finding it hard to re connect. I support they and the charity whole heartedly but I do agree they seem to be distant. And he really really should not be following them girls.
That’s what I said the other day they’ve forgotten how to be together
 
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Does Saff have any friends apart from Ashleys family? From the outside looking in, it looks like abuse 😬

isolate her from her friends & family. Only allowing her to communicate with people he deems suitable. Cause a rift with the mum and cut her off. She won’t take meds - could be a personal choice, could also be ash saying you dont need pills, just exercise more. She’s gained weight & he follows all the models on insta which probably does nothing for her self esteem. He seems cold towards her. There’s no affection in his voice. His body language around Saff is closed. Its like, she just exists. I bet she was hoping the charity would give her a purpose but Ash seems to have taken over. Like someone else said, shes been doing a 25 mile bike rides at home, she could have easily have done smaller routes to join in & feel like she’s part of it. She is isolated, her own partner ices her out & when her brother is with his family - she’s got no one. You can see on the vids when she is with Ash, its like she desperately wants his attention, a bit of affection, half the time he can’t even look at her.

hopefully, one day soon she sees the light & gets the courage to leave Ash because this is not healthy. I think they would be better apart where they can both heal seperately as together, its a bit toxic.
 
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I did wonder that, he apparently sorted her birthday party out yet all he did was invite her brother and his own family.
 
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The one thing that has never sat right is the "my daughter" as though Safiyya was a vessel and just a womb.
His bleeping cousins get more gratitude than his own baby mum. Yet everyday she gets up and carries on. My heart breaks for her, I don't even care if she wants free tit, she deserves free tit when even her own partner seems to do absolutely anything possible to avoid spending time with her. I wish I knew her personally, mum to mum she'd get the biggest hug going.
This is what has disturbed me from the start. Always writing “my Daughter” has never once referred to her as “our Daughter” leaving flowers for her from him, not from both of them! It’s starting to wind me up; how can we all see it yet no one is holding him to account that his behaviour towards Saf is cruel, selfish & unnecessary! Honestly, if my brother behaved like this I’d take him aside & tell him to stop, to not be so inconsiderate towards Saf, to think about how his words and actions affect her! It cannot have gone unnoticed it’s just bloody awful!!!
 
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I did wonder that, he apparently sorted her birthday party out yet all he did was invite her brother and his own family.
I think he was probably made to sort it out being 2 days after Azaylias!

Yes even if she doesn’t speak to her mom he could have invited her wider family
 
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Whilst I still stand by that I don’t judge how they grieve (the orange, let’s go champ etc) I can’t help but judge how little support Saf seems to be getting. I feel so so sorry for her. Her latest stories hurt my heart. She seems so lost and alone and he’s there with the adoring crowds. It’s not right 💔
 
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There was a comment that struck me as odd when azaylia was at home, and it was something like "we're 2 peas in a pod, wherever she is I'm not far away that's where we feel the most comfy" but that's abit bloody insensitive to her mum, who carried her for 9 months, then 8 weeks into a csection recovery her babies being blue lighted to hospital with bloody leaukemia

I will say that the slogan "fearless in the fight against children's cancer" is beautiful. Especially given that childhood cancer gets virtually 0 funding and there havent been many breakthroughs in treatment plans or cures in a long time.

I know they said they will use the foundation to give money to families who need to pay for treatment overseas, that is amazing.
 
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This is what has disturbed me from the start. Always writing “my Daughter” has never once referred to her as “our Daughter” leaving flowers for her from him, not from both of them! It’s starting to wind me up; how can we all see it yet no one is holding him to account that his behaviour towards Saf is cruel, selfish & unnecessary! Honestly, if my brother behaved like this I’d take him aside & tell him to stop, to not be so inconsiderate towards Saf, to think about how his words and actions affect her! It cannot have gone unnoticed it’s just bloody awful!!!
I’ve noticed sometimes when people leave comments on his insta about how he is with safiyya they quickly get deleted. I noticed this a lot when he did the post after the funeral.

Then not long after these comments safiyya will appear on his story
 
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20k out of all the money to Birmingham children’s hospital. I’m rubbish at maths but how much percentage is that
 
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People who are depressed sometimes push those closest to them away.. I’ve been on the receiving end of it.

When Saffiya says she has crazy anxiety it reminds me of the anxiety I had when I was pushed away. I know the pain of her losing Azaylia will be unbearable but if Ashley was closer to her I think a lot of those feelings of anxiety would melt away for her. She needs comfort from him.
 
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