Ashley Cain #2

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Give it a week there will be a post asking for recommendations for chauffeur companies to Scotland when he realises it will look good on hun having safiya there at the finishing line
Oh definitely , we can predict what’s gonna happen. It’s obvious the way they’re going

But he somehow still found time to follow porn stars and models etc. Sick baby or not that’s just plain vile and disrespectful!
Preach ❤
 
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I would HATE to be and hope I’m NEVER in their position. But I can safely say that if anything like this ever happened to me and my partner tried to push me into exercising that would just push me away from him. Safiyya doesn’t strike me as a gym bunny, she’s curvy and looks beautiful as she is! But it’s like she’s pushing herself to do this because it’s what Ashley does, and if he is pushing her away due to grief she would be doing these bike rides etc to try and prove herself to him. There’s absolutely no need for it!
 
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The Newquay thing isn’t the first thing I’ve noticed…. Azaylias Day when he made that post thanking his family for their support and saying how amazing they are and not one single mention or photo that included Safiyya. That must of killed her. As much as it’s a loss for the whole family and heart wrenching She is Azaylia’s mother.
 
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Could be that all the insta models on her fellas socials have made her feel that tit about herself that she's doing whatever she can to please him
 
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Could be that all the insta models on her fellas socials have made her feel that tit about herself that she's doing whatever she can to please him
I really really hope not poor thing! She honestly seems to have such a sweet soul.
 
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Fingers crossed after the bike ride ( how many days he is doing ) they spend some quality time together
 
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I wonder what the future holds for him career wise. She’s gone back to work cuz as she says she needs to earn a living…. Where does he go from here
Fingers crossed after the bike ride ( how many days he is doing ) they spend some quality time together
I dunno he had a lengthy list of things on the podcast. Sounds like he’s either going to be away or training for the foreseeable. If he goes to complete a challenge abroad and does not take her too I think that will be it for me.
 
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The one thing that has never sat right is the "my daughter" as though Safiyya was a vessel and just a womb.
His bleeping cousins get more gratitude than his own baby mum. Yet everyday she gets up and carries on. My heart breaks for her, I don't even care if she wants free tit, she deserves free tit when even her own partner seems to do absolutely anything possible to avoid spending time with her. I wish I knew her personally, mum to mum she'd get the biggest hug going.
 
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It was sad when he couldn’t think of anything that made him happy, he eventually said the orange sky. My first thought would be my partner.

They haven’t had any time alone to rebond.
 
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The one thing that has never sat right is the "my daughter" as though Safiyya was a vessel and just a womb.
His bleeping cousins get more gratitude than his own baby mum. Yet everyday she gets up and carries on. My heart breaks for her, I don't even care if she wants free tit, she deserves free tit when even her own partner seems to do absolutely anything possible to avoid spending time with her. I wish I knew her personally, mum to mum she'd get the biggest hug going.
Couldn’t of said it better myself! Thanks for putting it into words perfectly.
 
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I definitely feel like her saying she doesn’t want to take medication for her mental health right now isn’t necessarily coming from her and that’s really bloody sad.
 
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My heart breaks so badly for both of them, but I’m particular as a mother I feel for Saf. She seems so broken, I feel like she really needs some help and support
 
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I think she has a good relationship with Ash’s mum , they went live together also the other night. Hopefully they see each other away from the cameras
 
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It’s sad if she’s not seeking professional help as I think she expresses herself and speaks so openly. It’s not that she struggles to express herself it’s just she’s not gonna get what she needs on the other side or her phone. I feel if she could express herself this way to a professional who could help her understand and give her the right strategies to use it could really help her begin to build her life back up.
 
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The constant documentation on IG, the bike rides, the charity, the freebies etc are all a major distraction from the incomprehensible loss that Saf (and Ashley) have experienced. Without all of these things, what does she have? That’s why she breaks down on her lives often late at night. Someone needs to take her phone away and let her cry. I bet she does. I hope she does. I hope she’s also looking into bereavement therapy.
 
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I would HATE to be and hope I’m NEVER in their position. But I can safely say that if anything like this ever happened to me and my partner tried to push me into exercising that would just push me away from him. Safiyya doesn’t strike me as a gym bunny, she’s curvy and looks beautiful as she is! But it’s like she’s pushing herself to do this because it’s what Ashley does, and if he is pushing her away due to grief she would be doing these bike rides etc to try and prove herself to him. There’s absolutely no need for it!
She was super slim before and I do wonder if he resents her physically changing
 
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Does anyone know if there’s a thread for the nurse mum?
this is the latest one. But if you want to read from the start just type in “thenursemum” in the search bar and select “search titles only”. It should then list all the threads.

 
this is the latest one. But if you want to read from the start just type in “thenursemum” in the search bar and select “search titles only”. It should then list all the threads.

Thank you!
 
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