Ashley Cain #2

[GobShyte64]

This is how I was when I lost my son at 21 weeks... I was pregnant around 8 weeks after losing him. I was desperate to feel that love. Lots of love to you

I was the same too... Went through a phase where i REALLY wanted another. Not to replace her, but just, in my head it was "I want what is owed to me" I should have a baby, and I don't, give me her back. I think it was grief because after about 6 months of really wanting another baby... I soon changed my mind and couldn't think of anything worse so got sterilised.

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

Why are people referring to Azaylia as 'A'? Her name was Azaylia, her name should be spelt as Azaylia, not 'A'.
That is all

Its short for Azaylia & in respect to her

Not surprised , always been the Ashley Cain show in his eyes

 

[Romeo1]

Saff has been filming with an oncologist today for the charity. Well done her I dont think they are doing too bad you know. But time will tell.

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

I just hope they start sharing other people’s stories struggling with cancer , like they say they will. Donate more to children’s hospitals etc

 

[katty257]

when I was pregnant. My best friend was pregnant at the same time. My daughter died and her daughter lived. We didnt talk for years after. About 2-3 years & even now - its been 6years and I still take a big step back from anyone I know that has a baby. I cant even talk about pregnancies,birth, etc. We are all different & all cope with things differently but me personally, that chunk of my life is filled with so much trauma, I cant even talk about other peoples pregnancies n births etc.
I bet shes traumatised.

aww so sorry to hear of your loss and I can only imagine it must be very painful situation,like you say everyone deals with grief differently but just making an assumption that could possibly be the situation with Saf and her best friend,people definitely need to stop asking her if she wants another baby that’s so rude

 

[Grace's Secret]

when I was pregnant. My best friend was pregnant at the same time. My daughter died and her daughter lived. We didnt talk for years after. About 2-3 years & even now - its been 6years and I still take a big step back from anyone I know that has a baby. I cant even talk about pregnancies,birth, etc. We are all different & all cope with things differently but me personally, that chunk of my life is filled with so much trauma, I cant even talk about other peoples pregnancies n births etc.
I bet shes traumatised.

Im so sorry. I hope you have managed to get counselling and support to help you.

 

[LaurieLaurie]

They said in the happy baby (?) podcast that it took them a long time to have Azaylia, I think Ashley said he thought he was the problem so it’s even more stupid to ask them about another. They could be trying and struggling again for all anyone knows.

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

Doubt they’re trying again , they’ve just lost their daughter & he’s out biking anywhere & everywhere

They said in the happy baby (?) podcast that it took them a long time to have Azaylia, I think Ashley said he thought he was the problem so it’s even more stupid to ask them about another. They could be trying and struggling again for all anyone knows.

 

[GobShyte64]

Im so sorry. I hope you have managed to get counselling and support to help you.

Thank you.. I didn't have counselling. It wasnt really offered and the waiting list with the GP was over 18 months long. They were quick to prescribe anti-depressants though which I didn't take. I've been on them before and I didn't like how they made me feel so I refused. I had to go back to work straight away as the job centre was on my a so I did and cried in the toilets when I heard someone call their daughter, which was the same name I called my daughter! It was brutal for a bit to be honest, but it got easier and I got better. I just avoid my triggers which is babies & talking about pregnancy & babies! lol

 

[queenpoppy27]

Im in full support of what they’re doing but I do not support the beggy behaviour. Especially after this last year and a half, and for people in that sector having to stop work altogether as no one was getting massages etc. They’ve probably lost out on thousands and they’re expecting free massages? No thanks!

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

Thank you.. I didn't have counselling. It wasnt really offered and the waiting list with the GP was over 18 months long. They were quick to prescribe anti-depressants though which I didn't take. I've been on them before and I didn't like how they made me feel so I refused. I had to go back to work straight away as the job centre was on my a so I did and cried in the toilets when I heard someone call their daughter, which was the same name I called my daughter! It was brutal for a bit to be honest, but it got easier and I got better. I just avoid my triggers which is babies & talking about pregnancy & babies! lol

I hope you’re doing ok now , really sorry for your loss. I’ve been on different medication including different anti depressants since I was young. Everyone is different & reacts differently. I can’t imagine the loss of losing a child. No way slating Ashley on here , it just would be nice to see some love , support & compassion towards Saf

View attachment 752029Im in full support of what they’re doing but I do not support the beggy behaviour. Especially after this last year and a half, and for people in that sector having to stop work altogether as no one was getting massages etc. They’ve probably lost out on thousands and they’re expecting free massages? No thanks!

This !! No matter your situation , you shouldn’t expect freebies

 

[Noonoosanne2]

View attachment 752029Im in full support of what they’re doing but I do not support the beggy behaviour. Especially after this last year and a half, and for people in that sector having to stop work altogether as no one was getting massages etc. They’ve probably lost out on thousands and they’re expecting free massages? No thanks!

This is what annoys me my hubby pays £25 for a deep tissue massage so if they are gifted this x 5 that’s £125 this person will miss out on x that by all the stops along the way that’s a lot of £££ in free massages

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

This is what annoys me my hubby pays £25 for a deep tissue massage so if they are gifted this x 5 that’s £125 this person will miss out on x that by all the stops along the way that’s a lot of £££ in free massages

Some people don’t realise or forget Saf does have a good job so she can afford things herself

Not sure about Ash ie TV etc

 

[Noonoosanne2]

Some people don’t realise or forget Saf does have a good job so she can afford things herself

Not sure about Ash ie TV etc

I’m sure he can afford a massage if he wanted to!!

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

I’m sure he can afford a massage if he wanted to!!

True , I don’t wanna make assumptions but you never know if they take from the go fund me / we don’t know how much goes into the foundation or charities

 

[Book]

Some people don’t realise or forget Saf does have a good job so she can afford things herself

Not sure about Ash ie TV etc

She isn’t at work though is she. Or does she own the salon and have employees? Not even sure Ash has ever worked in the true sense.Last thing mentioned was his car selling scamming thing So unless Saf covers everything I can’t understand how the usual outgoings of mortgages/rent etc are being met.

 

[Noonoosanne2]

She isn’t at work though is she. Or does she own the salon and have employees? Not even sure Ash has ever worked in the true sense.Last thing mentioned was his car selling scamming thing So unless Saf covers everything I can’t understand how the usual outgoings of mortgages/rent etc are being met.

I know she’s done a few ad’s lately but I can’t see that covering it

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

She isn’t at work though is she. Or does she own the salon and have employees? Not even sure Ash has ever worked in the true sense.Last thing mentioned was his car selling scamming thing So unless Saf covers everything I can’t understand how the usual outgoings of mortgages/rent etc are being met.

She‘a been on & off working , look at her business page

 

[Pansypotts]

I don’t think she’s properly gone back to work. I think Ash had a clothing brand and an online fitness thing but not sure what has happened to that.

 

[Book]

She‘a been on & off working , look at her business page

Surely more off than on? as she is out flowing Ash and doing other things for the foundation.