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Just had a little snoop on Safs Instagram of few pics before she had A and there is a picture of her and her best friend and she is tagged in the picture so I clicked her profile and the best friend has not long had a baby herself so I can imagine that’s hard for Saf and stirs up some feelings and she’s probably keeping her distance maybe even unintentionally but it has got to be hard for her bless her might explain why she only wants her brother for support it seems she my be cutting people off or wanting to be on her own possibly?
Ashley’s brother, the one doing the bike ride, also has a baby girl who is only a week older than Azaylia. That must be tough for them
 
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On Safs live this morning she takes about people making merch with Azaylia on and being worried that they aren’t donating it to charity. They need to get some sort of thing in place where people can’t just sell stuff.
 
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Honestly me And my ex ain’t together and he always always says OUR son so why does ash think it’s ok to say MY . I mean no wonder her mum is going mad isn’t it obvious this is all about ash . He can’t respect the mother of his child and it’s so obvious this is all about him . I’ve not seen anything yet of saf just him and the crowds cheering him . Imagine carrying a baby fir nine months going through what she is and having your partner refer to their daughter as MY sorry but it’s disrespectful
 
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Why are they leaving places so late in the day. Surely it’s safer to leave earlier so they aren’t cycling in the dark and can get to their hotels eat and rest and get an early night.

riding behind a van with music blaring out and crowds chanting let’s go champ at 10/11pm at night is just not needed.
 
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Why are people referring to Azaylia as 'A'? Her name was Azaylia, her name should be spelt as Azaylia, not 'A'.
That is all ❤
 
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I'm honestly so confused on what this preaching has to do with the charity. I wouldn't be donating to "fight my demons", I'd be donating for awareness and helping these children. It's like he thinks he's the next messiah with all this motivational speaking.
Like others have said, go to therapy and deal with it.
This isn't dealing with it. It's pushing it away until it will come to a head!

I had therapy which started 6 weeks after I lost my son and if I hadn't I don't know where I'd be.
Grief never ends but he's extending this part.
 
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Im half expecting Ash to go into motivational speaking. Not yet but at some point. People will pay to hear him talk about his struggles and how he was such a terrible person until he had Azaylia & how he changed her life etc. He will get a book deal first, maybe his own podcast, then the press tours, etc. It could be used as part of the Azaylia foundation… if hes reading this I want my 10% for coming up with this 😂😂
 
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I'm honestly so confused on what this preaching has to do with the charity. I wouldn't be donating to "fight my demons", I'd be donating for awareness and helping these children. It's like he thinks he's the next messiah with all this motivational speaking.
This made me LOL this morning 'the next messiah' thank u 😂 x
 
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He’s a total narc. This isn’t about the baby, it’s about him. All that shouting & preaching in the street late at night is embarrassing. His cousin is pitching up expecting a clothing deal or something. Non of them involved in this circus are coming across well & while they self promote in this awful way, they’re watering down any message to do with raising money or awareness of children’s cancer. They say that’s what the foundation is for, but even on the page that message isn’t clear, there is no direction for this foundation or it’s intentions for the future. That should be their focus, again, not this circus they’ve created!
 
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The amount they’ve raised is amazing but I agree with an earlier post that they need to remember the point is educating and helping others not the Ashley worshiping.. it’s got so weird so quickly
 
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I agree ☝ nothing seems to be about children with cancer . It’s all ash and his family whilst poor saf is out in the background . She was azaylia mother she deserves more recognition than she gets it’s so sad I really feel for her
 
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I wish them nothing but success with the Azaylia Foundation, helping children with cancer is obviously a great cause, but I’m finding this bike ride an increasingly bizarre spectacle.

I don’t understand why large crowds of people are turning out to listen to Ashley preach in hotel car parks every night. It’s like he thinks he’s the Second Coming, and his followers are treating him as if he is! Throw in the chanting of ‘let’s go champ’ & it all starts to feel a bit like some kind of weird cult!
 
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Just why?
why be a bleep?! I bet it’s the last thing on her bloody mind while she grieves
You’d be surprised how many people say this though. My hubby and I lost our daughter she was a few weeks old and so many people would come up to us and say “at least you can try for another” 🙄
 
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Just why?
why be a bleep?! I bet it’s the last thing on her bloody mind while she grieves
I lost my son at 3 days old and all I could think about was having another baby. Not to replace him but because he was very must wanted (we'd had 2 miscarriages before) so I get it.
But nobody, thankfully, asked me! People were actually telling me to think about it when I would say about having another.

I'm pregnant now a few months after but whenever I had another baby would be hard, whether now or in 2/3/4 years...

I don't get people asking though. Especially when it is so obvious they don't see each other!
 
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I lost my son at 3 days old and all I could think about was having another baby. Not to replace him but because he was very must wanted (we'd had 2 miscarriages before) so I get it.
But nobody, thankfully, asked me! People were actually telling me to think about it when I would say about having another.

I'm pregnant now a few months after but whenever I had another baby would be hard, whether now or in 2/3/4 years...

I don't get people asking though. Especially when it is so obvious they don't see each other!
Yes true I didn’t consider that, I don’t know how it feels to have that happen so I don’t have any understanding of that feeling,hope I haven’t offended anyone that would be the last thing I intended:(
I wish you all the luck in your pregnancy for a safe pregnancy and a beautiful healthy baby ❤
 
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I lost my son at 3 days old and all I could think about was having another baby. Not to replace him but because he was very must wanted (we'd had 2 miscarriages before) so I get it.
But nobody, thankfully, asked me! People were actually telling me to think about it when I would say about having another.

I'm pregnant now a few months after but whenever I had another baby would be hard, whether now or in 2/3/4 years...

I don't get people asking though. Especially when it is so obvious they don't see each other!
This is how I was when I lost my son at 21 weeks... I was pregnant around 8 weeks after losing him. I was desperate to feel that love. Lots of love to you ❤
 
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