I don’t either lol what’s shallow about that? Confused
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I don't think it's shallow. I think it's fair to expect your partner to at least try and stay attractive for you and to try and stay attractive for them. Obviously life happens and people age but I hate the attitude of 'now I scored a partner i can let myself go" it's so disrespectful.
Defining someone gaining a few pounds as suddenly becoming unattractive is shallow. Do we all expect it, sure maybe, but it still doesn't make it any less shallow.
It's not about gaining a few pounds. It's about not caring about staying attractive for your partner. If you take care of yourself when you're single but then when you're in a relationship you let yourself go, I think it's disrespectful. I've literally heard people say before " well now I'm married, I don't need to bother anymore so just eat whatever I want".
It's not even about the physical side of it, what I would find unattractive is the lack of initiative to stay attractive. Just like if my partner said e.g. "now I'm in a relationship,I don't need to try and be nice anymore".
Not saying that everyone should be bothered about their partner gaining a few pounds. As I said,life happens but obviously if that person asked the question,then it must bother them
I think it's a bit ignorant to assume someone is gaining weight because they're lazy and eat too much. Could be something underlying. Also, if you're concerned about your partner, why the duck would you go to some influencer with a questionable relationship history? Maybe, I don't know... talk to your partner?
Think I might've already said this, but I get the impression she has a second account she uses to ask questions to herself on her main so she can come off as some advice guru. I'm surprised she didn't tell that person to buy her BBL guide to help lose weight
Think I might've already said this, but I get the impression she has a second account she uses to ask questions to herself on her main so she can come off as some advice guru. I'm surprised she didn't tell that person to buy her BBL guide to help lose weight
well said!!!I think it's a bit ignorant to assume someone is gaining weight because they're lazy and eat too much. Could be something underlying. Also, if you're concerned about your partner, why the duck would you go to some influencer with a questionable relationship history? Maybe, I don't know... talk to your partner?
Think I might've already said this, but I get the impression she has a second account she uses to ask questions to herself on her main so she can come off as some advice guru. I'm surprised she didn't tell that person to buy her BBL guide to help lose weight
I don’t get how putting on weight all of a sudden makes someone “unattractive”. It’s the person that you fall in love with and tbh everyone has been through covid so it’s took it’s toll on a lot of people. I know I don’t exercise as much as I used to, but my boyfriend doesn’t see me as unattractive because I don’t “have that initiative to be attractive”. I’d be attractive to him if I had put on weight. It is quite shallow when all people care about is looks and not who the person is you fell in love with. The person in the relationship who might have put on weight might be struggling and doesn’t need the person closest to them to judge them, maybe they might just need support.
Literally said it's not about gaining a few pounds.
Also the advice given by Arianna seems supportive, encourage them to make healthy changes together etc.
course there’s a way of encouraging someone, however the way she had wrote her advice was not in an encouraging supporting loving partner way. It was completely the opposite. That’s the point.
Think she started her response to the question literally with:
seems a bit judgy but she’s someone who is completely image obsessed and an Instagram influencer so it’s not very surprising! Haha
seems a bit judgy but she’s someone who is completely image obsessed and an Instagram influencer so it’s not very surprising! Haha
Exactly this! I’ve gained about 3 stone since being on anti psychotics. Also suffer with chronic pain so exercise isn’t easy & the medication makes me always hungry! It just shows people’s age with comments on here sometimes!
Obviously there are cases like yours and that's totally understandable. But a lot of times it is just getting bad habits take over. Don't know how a different opinion shows anyone's age. Anyway, don't want to derail the thread anymore with off topic discussion
I agree I went on them and my weight went up alot
Lol if my bf put on an excessive amount of weight I’d end it sorry
Yes I’m shallow and I don’t really care. I’m putting in a lot of effort to look after myself and I’d expect the same back
Yes I’m shallow and I don’t really care. I’m putting in a lot of effort to look after myself and I’d expect the same back
Christ, she'd be so pretty without those crazy cheeks and nose!
Is it just me that think those MTL jeans look horrendous? So unflattering
lol remember when she didn't know how to run a business and was scamming all of her customers hahahhaha
still only got 3 stars on Trustpilot
still only got 3 stars on Trustpilot
yeah and for £60 as well lmao
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her nose is so offputting, im assuming its a bad nose job??
She says it's natural and has shown photos of when she was younger
