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I always think people back then were happier because although they worked harder their work had purpose.I think the emptiness is a symptom of modern life. In our grandparents and even parents generations they didn’t have the same opportunities we have now, things were generally harder and they probably didn’t have as much time as we do now to ponder the meaning of it all. I’m sure if I was in the 1950s I’d be too busy with kids and cooking/cleaning to wonder if I was truly happy. Sometimes having a easier life can actually make it seem less fulfilling in a way…
I could have written this, particularly how much I hate myself and my personality. The only difference is that my friends do seem to judge me rather harshly. And it's easy for people to say drop your friends, except I've lost my closest friends to cancer and covid, and the ones that remain are not the best, but I'm trying to be patient and hoping this is just pandemic fatigue causing them to be mean. Time will tell if I drop them all and end up entirely alone.Nope. I find life hard. Family health issues, money, comparing myself to my friends (my issue completely, they don’t judge me etc), not being successful in my work life. I genuinely hate my personality.
I third that sentiment. I really hope I can get to feel some true happiness and stability at some point in the future. It seems impossible from where I am now.Maybe I'm not there yet but I want to be one day.
This resonates with me. I usually try to remember that people have it harder, so I really shouldn't feel sorry for myself. Yet, the reality is, my life has been so turbulent and I can't ever seem to find stability...happiness feels like a pipe dream.Then there's the guilt - guilt that there will be people who are experiencing much more difficult things than I ever have, so how can I be unhappy?
Might I ask what those steps would be? I am hoping that the discussion will inspire me to figure out what steps I may take. Though each person's journey is different, just the conversation may spark something in those of us who are feeling a bit lost. Of course, you are free to ignore the question if it is too personal.I know what would make me happy, I even know the steps I need to take in order to get there