I’m mid 30’s saving to buy house 2 years married the usual questions about kids I’m too ashamed to admit I’m putting off trying as yes we are comfortable financially we have 1 car no luxury lifestyle not buying clothes every week or month I can’t afford to bring a life into this world I would love kids and listening to my friend who has 2 kids she had saved for expenses like milk nappies and anything baby would need for first year covering any extra expenses as maternity pay won’t get you by each monthI’m almost 30, also have a decent job as does my partner. No way we can afford kids in the current climate and I think my situation will become more and more common too