Anna Bey #6 School of Affluence Fraud

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But men have become so cheap because women allow this behaviour :(
You have the answer in this sentence you wrote. Then just don’t allow it. Anna’s stupid tips or “school” is not going to change men. Men do what you allow them to do. That’s it, now please send me 1K via paypal 😂
 
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These are all very heterocentric. I need to learn how to find myself a rich lesbian! 😍:LOL:
 
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About that guy basically testing you to see of you are gold digger, I saw someone say to answer something like

"Oh, are you a millionaire/ billionaire/ do you own a jet ?(basically asking about something the guy doesn't have). No ? Oh, I thought gold diggers were only interested in millionaires/billionaires/ men who have their own jets. That's strange...."
A shady comment for a shady character
Or something like "not everything that shines/glitter is gold" or "hm, the golddiggers you've meet so far must be blind or have heavy vision impairment (because I only see fools gold)"
 
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About that guy basically testing you to see of you are gold digger, I saw someone say to answer something like

"Oh, are you a millionaire/ billionaire/ do you own a jet ?(basically asking about something the guy doesn't have). No ? Oh, I thought gold diggers were only interested in millionaires/billionaires/ men who have their own jets. That's strange...."
A shady comment for a shady character
If a guy is so obvious to try and test you or some one else I would not pursue further because that’s just plain rude not to mention extremely entitled. If a man suspect some one to dig gold he can just split the bill then go home and complain to his friends. No need to humiliate someone to their face. Very rude.
If some guys you dated did this to you ... acting so that you feel inferior you can always leave half way. Don’t stick around if someone is already so presumptious. Just excuse yourself to the bathroom and leave.
 
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These are all very heterocentric. I need to learn how to find myself a rich lesbian! 😍
I think Getty ended up marrying a Youtuber last year? Not sure rn.

If a guy is so obvious to try and test you or some one else I would not pursue further because that’s just plain rude not to mention extremely entitled. If a man suspect some one to dig gold he can just split the bill then go home and complain to his friends. No need to humiliate someone to their face. Very rude.
If some guys you dated did this to you ... acting so that you feel inferior you can always leave half way. Don’t stick around if someone is already so presumptious. Just excuse yourself to the bathroom and leave.
^_^
That would be the good thing to do.
 
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Speaking about dusty men, now with the pandemic is getting much worse. I am on inner circle and few men actually are just inviting to their places for wine, one said I have an amazing terrace... as if I cared about his stupid terrace. I actually made a scene and reported them but nothing happened. The sad thing is that many women accept this, that's why men became that dusty. I don't understand because I don't think that I look low maintenance so I'd think men could try a different approach, but they still try... :(
We all should make our own group and empower women, if Anna goes down.
I have to say that your stories are so funny. I haven't been so much on the dating scene.
 
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Speaking about dusty men, now with the pandemic is getting much worse. I am on inner circle and few men actually are just inviting to their places for wine, one said I have an amazing terrace... as if I cared about his stupid terrace. I actually made a scene and reported them but nothing happened. The sad thing is that many women accept this, that's why men became that dusty. I don't understand because I don't think that I look low maintenance so I'd think men could try a different approach, but they still try... :(
We all should make our own group and empower women, if Anna goes down.
I have to say that your stories are so funny. I haven't been so much on the dating scene.
i hear this all the time. Usually they don’t have a terrace & want to come over. I find this really cheap, offering themselves over “Cook me dinner” ...

seriously these men are so badly brought up. I call this sponging of a woman.

what type of women accept this?
Cook & clean for a guy who just wants it all (at her expense).
 
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You have the answer in this sentence you wrote. Then just don’t allow it. Anna’s stupid tips or “school” is not going to change men. Men do what you allow them to do. That’s it, now please send me 1K via paypal 😂
Haha I was so angry that an online site scammed me after ordering some chemical peels and never received them. :(( and it was, obviously, a significantly smaller amount. But I felt so stupid.
 
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Speaking about dusty men, now with the pandemic is getting much worse. I am on inner circle and few men actually are just inviting to their places for wine, one said I have an amazing terrace... as if I cared about his stupid terrace. I actually made a scene and reported them but nothing happened. The sad thing is that many women accept this, that's why men became that dusty. I don't understand because I don't think that I look low maintenance so I'd think men could try a different approach, but they still try... :(
We all should make our own group and empower women, if Anna goes down.
I have to say that your stories are so funny. I haven't been so much on the dating scene.
Then why you didn’t tell him directly that you don’t care about nice terraces ? See, the thing is that women are mostly silent about things that bother them, but then blame men. I have worked once with an asshole boss he was an asshole to the whole team, when I started working there from day one i was talking to him in the same way he talked to me, some colleagues were surprised how he was so different with me and even took it personally, in the sense like he was “liking” me more. I just told them just talk in the same way he talks to you, men should be put in their place just like babies. Also men are pussies, they get scared easily, if you tell him that you don’t like what he said or did and call him out on his behavior I’ll guarantee you that most probably he won’t do it again, if yes then he has other mental issues. Anna is not the solution to this, you are your own solution.
 
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i hear this all the time. Usually they don’t have a terrace & want to come over. I find this really cheap, offering themselves over “Cook me dinner” ...

seriously these men are so badly brought up. I call this sponging of a woman.

what type of women accept this?
Cook & clean for a guy who just wants it all (at her expense).
I don't get it either, but I think many women accept, otherwise they wouldn't still have this low "strategy". They also have a good vocabulary, seemed smart and they still are paisants at heart.
 
If a guy is so obvious to try and test you or some one else I would not pursue further because that’s just plain rude not to mention extremely entitled. If a man suspect some one to dig gold he can just split the bill then go home and complain to his friends. No need to humiliate someone to their face. Very rude.
If some guys you dated did this to you ... acting so that you feel inferior you can always leave half way. Don’t stick around if someone is already so presumptious. Just excuse yourself to the bathroom and leave.
I would leave, but if I'm eating something and it's good, then I'll finish it first lol And I won't excuse myself to the bathroom, I'll just tell him I don't think we match/you are rude and I no longer enjoy your company
 
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Inner Circle is full of men of eligible age (30-40s) who want career women to split 50/50 on them. At least it was like this years ago I haven't used it in 3 years.

Men do what you allow. Even my ex when we first met he wanted to suggest going for a walk on the beach (at night!) I said I'll be wearing heels so that's not going to work. He took me to a restaurant with a view and we had a fabulous dinner.

But I don't think that it's a reflection of you personally. We get offended and say, he thinks I'm worthless, or worth only a Netflix and chill.. well maybe not maybe he just tried that on 10 girls and 9 of them said yes. Maybe he wants the one who will make him work for it and step his game up. There's a reason why some women stay years with a man and never get a thing but he breaks up with them and 6 months later is married and spoiling his new gal.

The difference?

The latter knew her worth and wasn't going to accept anything less. Not to be confused with the ridiculous standards Anna has set. I saw a post in that dumb group Socialite Club that started "I know we all won't accept anything but a millionaire or billionaire, but..." I laughed so hard and kept scrolling!
 
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I like how everyone is sharing their experiences on this thread, and it's great seeing so many new members!

This free thread is on the way to replacing Aija's $1000 courses and forums!
 
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I like how everyone is sharing their experiences on this thread, and it's great seeing so many new members!

This free thread is on the way to replacing Aija's $1000 courses and forums!
She will most likely just include the information in a new course now selling for 3000$ but worth 3000000$
 
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Then why you didn’t tell him directly that you don’t care about nice terraces ? See, the thing is that women are mostly silent about things that bother them, but then blame men. I have worked once with an asshole boss he was an asshole to the whole team, when I started working there from day one i was talking to him in the same way he talked to me, some colleagues were surprised how he was so different with me and even took it personally, in the sense like he was “liking” me more. I just told them just talk in the same way he talks to you, men should be put in their place just like babies. Also men are pussies, they get scared easily, if you tell him that you don’t like what he said or did and call him out on his behavior I’ll guarantee you that most probably he won’t do it again, if yes then he has other mental issues. Anna is not the solution to this, you are your own solution.
Oh, but rest assured that my reaction was not very elegant. Well, I did stay calm on the outside, but told him the worst things, cheap womaniser being the nicest one. 🤣 I wasn't even interested to give a second chance, immediately reported them. I really do not have time to waste and no intentions to act like a lady with them.
 
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This reminds me, yeaaaars ago I went on a date (in a pub, didn't know any better) and as soon as we sat up the guy started showing me a pic of the eiffel tower on his phone, then statue of liberty.. I said I think I actually will go, didn't finish my drink, not even half and left. He was shocked lol
 
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I don’t need a course from a former escort to tell me when a guy is stingy.

Oh no..

anything resembling a date in the park or unsavoury, vague or intimate plans & im gone.

you’re right, before we step away tell them-you don’t fancy an undefined date, A “drink” in a intimate bar (where they will grope you) or an “or” guy.

tell them straight out so that they know you are on to them.

i would rather not go on a date then meet up with an unsavoury guy ( they always give you a hint of their cheap/ dirty behaviour Beforehand ).
belonging to Anna’s heavily monitored group won’t help me to stand my ground, I know what needs to be done!
 
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Inner Circle is full of men of eligible age (30-40s) who want career women to split 50/50 on them. At least it was like this years ago I haven't used it in 3 years.
It is true and I think it became more like tinder (i don't use tinder but I can imagine that, from the "wine" invitations).
Probably men see me as a career woman and think I'd be ok with splitting, which is not really the case. :( it depends a lot on the country and culture, but men became super stingy, especially if they are good looking and young.
 
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I like how everyone is sharing their experiences on this thread, and it's great seeing so many new members!

This free thread is on the way to replacing Aija's $1000 courses and forums!
Yes, I completely agree. What actually attracted me to Aija, apart from fashion tips, was her speaking openly about the unfair dating scene nowadays, stingy men etc. She may be taking it crass, but I do agree with the general idea and I guess I haven't see anyone on Youtube speaking about it so openly and expressing things that also I myself was feeling. I think I mentioned earlier on this thread that I have been burnt out by the modern dating culture. But it's prevalent because women allow it, that I find the most disturbing part. I work on raising my standards and communicating them freely. And I've noticed that men do step up their game if you show that you're not okay with something.
 
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Yes, I completely agree. What actually attracted me to Aija, apart from fashion tips, was her speaking openly about the unfair dating scene nowadays, stingy men etc. She may be taking it crass, but I do agree with the general idea and I guess I haven't see anyone on Youtube speaking about it so openly and expressing things that also I myself was feeling. I think I mentioned earlier on this thread that I have been burnt out by the modern dating culture. But it's prevalent because women allow it, that I find the most disturbing part. I work on raising my standards and communicating them freely. And I've noticed that men do step up their game if you show that you're not okay with something.
I totally agree with you, that was my point too. I liked that she opened that 'niche' and more women should be 'educated' to step up/ level up/ be more demanding/ you name it and not accept dusty men with a lousy behaviour just because they are desperate and afraid to be lonely.
 
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