Wow. I’m engaging in the conversation and agreeing with you all! You don’t have to be so rude.unfortunately I think the OP will just allow herself to believe whatever poor excuse this guy comes out with and this cycle will just go
On & on....
Wow. I’m engaging in the conversation and agreeing with you all! You don’t have to be so rude.unfortunately I think the OP will just allow herself to believe whatever poor excuse this guy comes out with and this cycle will just go
On & on....
You only know what he’s been telling you.Yeah they absolutely do use it as a weapon. I mean he never has or anything but I’ve seen it happen so many times.
Yeah I think if anything, he’s maybe been overthinking it all a bit too much and scared himself. Which is annoying because he was the one being more full on that me? . But I do know he genuinely had the report to do, he mentioned it a few weeks ago, and that it was a big stress for him.
Thanks for the thoughtful response X
I’ve never understood how people have the guts to live a double life. One of my mum’s friends was with a man for almost seven years. He worked away in the week, but they did live together and he came home most weekends. Sometimes though he would say he had to stay on for longer. She was always going on about how they had plans to get married and have children, but that he hadn’t proposed yet.I had something similar happen many years ago. Was seeing a guy - all very intense, we would text literally all day every day, spoke on the phone every night, met up as often as we could (we were 18/19, lived in different towns and this is way before iPhones & social media!!!) I made arrangements to move to his town for college - he was over the moon, lots of plans were made etc. I moved and literally didn’t hear from him for about a week despite my texts/calls - I thought he was dead! Then I got drunk one night and sent him a big emotional text telling him I loved him etc and all the rest of it and his response was absolutely horrible! I can still remember one line “fuck off - you are not my fucking girlfriend- I don’t have to explain myself to you- don’t ever contact me again”
I was heartbroken. I came completely out of left field. Turned out he had an actual girlfriend in town and he had been somehow playing me along the whole time..... lying little bastard.
I think it just seems a little like whenever anyone offers an opinion that goes against him you jump to his defence thats mahbe why some of the responses have seemed ‘rude’ - they’re not really rude. They’re just not what you want to hear.Wow. I’m engaging in the conversation and agreeing with you all! You don’t have to be so rude.
I had something similar happen many years ago. Was seeing a guy - all very intense, we would text literally all day every day, spoke on the phone every night, met up as often as we could (we were 18/19, lived in different towns and this is way before iPhones & social media!!!) I made arrangements to move to his town for college - he was over the moon, lots of plans were made etc. I moved and literally didn’t hear from him for about a week despite my texts/calls - I thought he was dead! Then I got drunk one night and sent him a big emotional text telling him I loved him etc and all the rest of it and his response was absolutely horrible! I can still remember one line “fuck off - you are not my fucking girlfriend- I don’t have to explain myself to you- don’t ever contact me again”I also wanted to add I worked in a pub Years ago and a guy in there chased me for weeks, I wasn’t interested in dating at all but he was super persistent. Eventually I was flattered and gave in and he took me for a lovely meal and pursued me with real talk of a future. The week of our 3rd date his messages became almost non existent and he cancelled saying he had a “cold”. I text back asking if that was an excuse and he sent me a horrible text about me being a clingy possessive freak and how dare I accuse him of lying. The night we were meant to go for our date I was out with friends consoling myself and he walked in hand in hand with another girl. Said it all.
That’s some balls to come and tell the girl you’re going out with you’ve had an amazing date with someone else. Frigging hell!This happened to me! Said all the same things and stuff and I’d stay at his, him mine, we’d go out and stuff, he’d cook and teach me how to. Then one evening he was so so quiet he came back alive and casually told me he’d been on a date and thought she was amazing!!! It all went tits up for them and foolishly I went back....laid in bed one morning and his phone pinged up another girl I’d suspected after flirtatious fb comments so I walked out left the front door open, deleted and blocked him from everything! Never spoke since (3 years). I saw him in Sainsbury’s last year walking with purpose with a bunch of flowers when he saw me he swiftly changed direction and ran down the nappy aisle! . Hope your guy doesn’t turn out like him (mine was over a year though and I did love him hence magically forgetting the date, I feel so ashamed by that haha)