Mad Betty
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Her social media habit was most definitely a factor in the breakdown of their marriage. She said herself it was an ongoing problem for him. Fights on Twitter, meltdowns, threats of self-harm, and oversharing clearly caused him a lot of stress and contributed to his decision to leave.
People leave toxic/abusive/dead marriages all the time. People find the strength to leave and they often meet someone that is more aligned with their core values and ways of existing in the world. Seems to me that's exactly what he did. Marriage isn't a blood contract that binds you until death. If you stop growing in a marriage and it harms your well being, leaving can save your life. He clearly saved his.
Kids survive divorce. You don't stay in a bad marriage for your kids. That's like slowly feeding them small doses of poison while you yourself are consuming bucket fulls. Hard no to that. We are not here on this planet to sacrifice our lives to maintain the status quo.
I do recall her saying she'd cheated in every relationship she'd had before she got married. A Tweet perhaps?
If you're still posting a Father's Day passive-aggressive dig post aimed at your ex, you most definitely have feelings for him. That's what therapy is for. Maybe she should take her own advice?
MOO
People leave toxic/abusive/dead marriages all the time. People find the strength to leave and they often meet someone that is more aligned with their core values and ways of existing in the world. Seems to me that's exactly what he did. Marriage isn't a blood contract that binds you until death. If you stop growing in a marriage and it harms your well being, leaving can save your life. He clearly saved his.
Kids survive divorce. You don't stay in a bad marriage for your kids. That's like slowly feeding them small doses of poison while you yourself are consuming bucket fulls. Hard no to that. We are not here on this planet to sacrifice our lives to maintain the status quo.
I do recall her saying she'd cheated in every relationship she'd had before she got married. A Tweet perhaps?
If you're still posting a Father's Day passive-aggressive dig post aimed at your ex, you most definitely have feelings for him. That's what therapy is for. Maybe she should take her own advice?
MOO