Because I was raised in a very chaotic environment and by a narc, I’m still susceptible to being sucked in by poor me stories by people who are quite clearly also narcs. I have to remove myself from the orbit of these types of people IRL and I actually stopped posting here for a year because I felt bad for her. What always comes back to me is the thought that these people are abusers. This is their MO. They get as far as they do with their abuse by relying on the pity of others and by triangulation. The court documents brought me back here.
Yes, what’s happened to Alice looks wise and lifestyle wise - staying in bed and not wanting to go out, can and could happen to all of us. The difference is, when this happens to people as a result of an illness or a mental health condition, you will naturally understand and give them leeway and avoid ridiculing them. Alice, while she is still a human and technically deserves the empathy she could never muster for others, is this way because of her terrible behaviour and choices. She’s an abuser, a manipulator and a dangerous person. She’s wrecking the lives of her children. So no, I don’t feel sorry for her. Her current situation is a form of karma. She’s stuck in a loop of reliving the past because her present is utterly bleeping miserable. Couldn’t have happened to a nicer person.
Yes, what’s happened to Alice looks wise and lifestyle wise - staying in bed and not wanting to go out, can and could happen to all of us. The difference is, when this happens to people as a result of an illness or a mental health condition, you will naturally understand and give them leeway and avoid ridiculing them. Alice, while she is still a human and technically deserves the empathy she could never muster for others, is this way because of her terrible behaviour and choices. She’s an abuser, a manipulator and a dangerous person. She’s wrecking the lives of her children. So no, I don’t feel sorry for her. Her current situation is a form of karma. She’s stuck in a loop of reliving the past because her present is utterly bleeping miserable. Couldn’t have happened to a nicer person.