My sister is a lot like Alice. My take on it is that they constantly judge people. Constantly. And, they judge on the surface things, like looks etc.. Therefore, when something happens to them they think everyone is judging them just as harshly. For example, my sister's car was dirty, and she said "everyone will think I don't have a husband!!" So I said," umm, no one really thinks like that. And, women are capable of washing cars, just like men" She said that about her yard, too. That if the lawn was not cared for, people would know her husband left.Jesus, I don't know about you guys, but I really could give a rat's ass if the car beside me has dirt on it. And I certainly don't think "that poor woman, her husband must have left" ffs.
Oh, and her "boys" are all adults but she refers to herself as a single mom. I get second hand embarrassment from that one. Once my kids reached adulthood, I switched to "I was a single mom". Her ex also left when the kids were all adults., so there is no reason why she would say this. Anyways, she's nuts like Alice. And she never was/is a single mom, just like Alice.