So sorry to read your story. My person wasn't a binger, it was constant until she decided to get help. It must be really hard with the binging, I imagine you get used to your Dad being without drink, for him to then revert back.Hi everyone, my dad has a drink problem but it’s very hard because he is a binge drinker, ie will be sober for months then will ’go on the drink’ for weeks at a time. This has gone on for years and Is very emotionally draining as I’m sure you all understand. I am always on edge, we have a very good relationship but I am finding it really hard at the moment. im wondering if anyone else is finding lockdown having a bigger impact on their alcoholic parent? I’ve tried to explain that everyone is struggling. At times I just feel helpless knowing that this will be my life forever.
I am with you on the emotionally draining side though. I think all of us have commented to some extent on this before. The being scared every time the phone rings, the worry if you see an ambulance heading towards their end of the town, the panic if there is a local headline that there has been an accident. Its mentally exhausting and draining. Don’t feel guilty for giving yourself a break on that, I used to go for a run or a walk or watch some rubbish TV as an escapism from my mind wandering.
My person is doing really well I believe, after several relapses. I still have the fear and worry and I don't know that it will ever go away.
Have you considered joining an AA group? I never have, but so many people find them a great outlet.
Is there any possibility you can discuss your Dad attending one? Does he acknowledge he has a problem? X