5 minutesShe sounds like as big a nightmare as mine. How close by is she? Mine is a 5 minute drive. You can guess where my husband is right now
5 minutesShe sounds like as big a nightmare as mine. How close by is she? Mine is a 5 minute drive. You can guess where my husband is right now
I feel your pain5 minutes
I've spent about 5 or 6 weeks with my parents. This is a regular thing this time of year - flying out from England to SA to spend 2 or 3 months with them, and it really is quite nice. But of course back then we had untold freedom and no Covid, so we weren't all on each other's backs!Oh I know the feeling. Myself and my husband were both working from home last week and nearly killed each other. Apparently he 'couldn't concentrate' while I was in the house
My neighbour is working from home while his wife and 3 small kids are there, so if he can manage!
I think everyone has cabin fever at this stage, and the MIL from hell doesn't help matters as I'm sure you know yourself!
Omg I think this is totally unacceptable. Why do unis insist on treating students like children. It really angers me. Do you have a course rep or student rep that can bring this up to your course leader? That way maybe they can reconsider. Even going on microphone is a big deal for me. Job interview you expect it and know youāre going to be out of your comfort zone but as students I feel we have a right to study in a way that is suitable for our individual situations!My lecturer just emailed us with the ārotaā for university lectures beginning Monday next week. According to him, the university dislike that so many students didnāt have their camera on last term so now a chunk of students will have to put their camera on and each week he will pick and choose students who need to have their camera on. The attitude being that if we were in a job interview we would need to have our camera on. Maybe itās just me being picky but I find it a stupid decision to make, I understand the reasoning behind it but weāre hardly applying for jobs, itās a pandemic.
For me for example it means having to tidy my room and get myself āpresentableā before the lecture, I am disabled so struggle/take a long time to do these things (itās not just a five minute job done thing and I donāt have another āsuitableā room to go to), I donāt think itās taking into consideration that people may still be struggling with stuff like this/struggling mentally, especially when itās randomised so you canāt plan for it either. He does say that if you canāt put your camera on due to technical issues or mental health issues you can say so but Iād find that really embarrassing - last term we were picked up on it e.g. in the lecture the lecturer was saying āApple, why isnāt your camera onā and I mean, why should you have to explain yourself to anybody/in front of everyone?
Argh. duck off Zoom.
Joining in on that too I have noticed I feel crap all week and my mood has started to massively improve at weekends (and not just the Friday feeling).just thought i'd leave my weekly ''i want to quit my job'' comment here
I totally relate to this and I am daily saying. āI canāt do this any moreāJoining in on that too I have noticed I feel crap all week and my mood has started to massively improve at weekends (and not just the Friday feeling).
My sympathies. I hate that so much.Lazy men, fml ive had enough. So I have the kids all week trying to juggle working from home, home schooling and looking after a very disruptive toddler.
He does nothing in the week except moan how bored he is at work because its dead there. No cooking, cleaning or washing. Ive got the kids fed and bathed before he gets home.
This morning he decided to lay in untill 11. Ive got up, took the kids to the park come back and he's done duck except make a mess. Confronted him about it and he just say omg I'm so selfish, the most selfish person in the work blah blah blah. And now he's fucked off out (to do his mate a favour from work) Let me to sort the kids again. Rant over
I just let it build up and I popped this morning. Like he's a nice guy, just absolutely uselessMy sympathies. I hate that so much.
Men are bastards. They do the bare minimum and expect applause and showers of praise. If I genuinely had my way, men wouldnāt be allowed near women or girls. We would live in a segregated societyLazy men, fml ive had enough. So I have the kids all week trying to juggle working from home, home schooling and looking after a very disruptive toddler.
He does nothing in the week except moan how bored he is at work because its dead there. No cooking, cleaning or washing. Ive got the kids fed and bathed before he gets home.
This morning he decided to lay in untill 11. Ive got up, took the kids to the park come back and he's done duck except make a mess. Confronted him about it and he just say omg I'm so selfish, the most selfish person in the work blah blah blah. And now he's fucked off out (to do his mate a favour from work) Let me to sort the kids again. Rant over
Iām in the same boat as you. Have been really trying not to let it get me down but it seems to pervade into all my relationships now. I try to explain my issues with work to friends and they just donāt understand, and then I get frustrated and feel like isolating myself and then panic because I know thatās not what I actually want, but I am so unhappy I canāt think rationally anymore. But then if I donāt talk about it I bottle it all up and end up getting annoyed about other things. Itās like I canāt win with this one. Just hoping I can find another job soon, although they are few and far between, thanks covid!I totally relate to this and I am daily saying. āI canāt do this any moreā
The lazy bum.This morning he decided to lay in untill 11.
Youāre not the only one. We were watching the Bohemian Rhapsody film over the weekend and I found myself in tears at the end, when they were showing the Live Aid concert. This wasnāt because Iām a massive Queen fan or because Iām someone who went to a lot of concerts, but just seeing something like that made me so sad as I started to think about when weād be able to have those kinds of events again (or whether we ever will) with thousands of people all sharing an experience or celebrating something together.I seem to cry about small things completely unrelated to myself recently.
Thankfully it only happens when I'm by myself but things like watching old videos and seeing how life was before covid, reading peoples tweets about parents/family dying and not being able to go to funerals, etc. Normally I would find it sad but I wouldn't shed tears over it. Now they don't seem to stop