isabellalovescats
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My dad started saying he wants grandchildren so I got a lovely big boy of a cat. Now, my parents Skype with him and call him grandson.
I can never get my head around this concept. Why would I "want" to spend time with a friend (or anyone's) kid? I don't know them?? You're my friend, I choose to hang out with YOU. Why do I owe your kid anything?! They're literally just another human you happened to create?She said, 'Yes I get that, but they don't see him very often, they should WANT to spend time with him!'
That is NOT a form of contraception.Surely depends if he pulls out or not? Sorry to be crude. With my ex I was silly and we didn’t use protection after I came off the pill but I used to track my cycle and we only had sex around 3 times in a 6 month period and he pulled out so even though we weren’t on anything I definitely wasn’t trying to get pregnant!
Just saw this on insta! The mothers in the comments are so insufferable:Haha yesss
So selfish. If you had a heart this would be your dayWent to see the Weeknd perform at Wembley on Friday… obviously no kids at the concert and it was SO relieving Travelling home on the trains was a nightmare but after leaving, got a Maccies at 3am and walked home eating it. Bliss Living my best CF life
This is the thing about parents that I hate the most. They forget that they CHOSE this life for themselves. They all go around moaning and groaning about how hard parenting is, how they never have time for themselves anymore, how little Rupie still isn't sleeping properly and is still coming in to their bed every night at 5 years old, how they never talk to their partner about anything except their children, how they haven't slept properly in years etc etc and they expect the world to have sympathy for them?People like this would be in there all day arguing over which of them had it the worst and they’d never actually get coffee. Like oh you only have one child I have two, well I have 4, I have three but I’m a single mum, I am a single mum with three but I also have a dog… they’d all love to be the one with the worst life
God if you need to create a whole human to have a bit of ‘excitement’ in your life….Jesus wept! What’s wrong with a ‘dull’ life anyway? If ‘excitement’ is baby shit, sick, not sleeping for years, Peppa fucking Pig and Legoland then I’ll take dull any dayI've had the same when I've been quizzed about whether I want kids or not, and I've replied the lifestyle seems quite dull to me, it was pointed out 'Is your life that exciting at moment '? (Fair point).
.... Oh ok, you got me there, let me just go and casually bring a life into the world that I'm forever responsible for, that's clearly the only answer ....