I think it depends on how close you are, my sister was working away (baby was early) when my son was born so I didn’t get to see her for 3 weeks and I really wanted her around, however the in laws came to stay when baby was 2 weeks and I was FUMINGDo you find Zoe a bit much . About how she don’t want to be away from her niece and how she will miss things . Soon as Bambi is born . She’s told don’t come tonight but she still goes. Then stays the weekend when Molly is home. I’d want some space if I was Molly to get into routine.