Well, seems I have found my people. I'm not diagnosed, but probably because these things weren't even discussed when I was at school. (Am mid 50s) and now I have so little faith in the healthcare system that I don't want to jump through the hoops you read so much about. And I wouldn't take meds with any type of regularity as I'd completely forget them within days of picking them up from the chemist.
I don't want to write a lengthy post as much of this thread so far resonates for me. However, I do need coping mechanisms and strategies.
I've tried lists (lose them, forget I've got 97 lists on my phone etc), I've tried challenges, which I won't even remember by tomorrow, let alone long enough to become a habit or yo achieve anything useful, I've tried kanban boards, huge A3 sheets of paper on the wall in the kitchen, whiteboards, etc etc.
I have managed to instil in myself that when I come home, I empty all my pockets and the car. The keys live there, glasses there, wallet there etc - same place every single time, but that has taken half a century to work out!
The house and garden is a tip. I live off-grid so everything is a real major job e. g. Fetching water to wash up, cooking by headtorch, no fridge etc. I rarely eat as I have felt hungry for so long now, why bother? And to eat, I need to wash up, go shopping etc and I simply don't have the energy to do all those jobs. If I do manage to go shopping, I buy random things from the very badly stocked village shop, none of which will make an actual meal, were on the list I've left at home, and aren't things I actually want to eat because I can no longer remember what I enjoy eating.
Any ideas?!
I don't want to write a lengthy post as much of this thread so far resonates for me. However, I do need coping mechanisms and strategies.
I've tried lists (lose them, forget I've got 97 lists on my phone etc), I've tried challenges, which I won't even remember by tomorrow, let alone long enough to become a habit or yo achieve anything useful, I've tried kanban boards, huge A3 sheets of paper on the wall in the kitchen, whiteboards, etc etc.
I have managed to instil in myself that when I come home, I empty all my pockets and the car. The keys live there, glasses there, wallet there etc - same place every single time, but that has taken half a century to work out!
The house and garden is a tip. I live off-grid so everything is a real major job e. g. Fetching water to wash up, cooking by headtorch, no fridge etc. I rarely eat as I have felt hungry for so long now, why bother? And to eat, I need to wash up, go shopping etc and I simply don't have the energy to do all those jobs. If I do manage to go shopping, I buy random things from the very badly stocked village shop, none of which will make an actual meal, were on the list I've left at home, and aren't things I actually want to eat because I can no longer remember what I enjoy eating.
Any ideas?!