mummy2under2
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No I agree completely.People that want to cheat, would cheat regardless of socisk media dating apps etc.
However it’s a thousand times easier for someone to cheat these days than it was 20/30 years ago.
No denying that!
No I agree completely.People that want to cheat, would cheat regardless of socisk media dating apps etc.
It wasn’t your fault. Don’t ever think that! That’s what my dad was like!Dv
I couldn’t take anymore of the gaslighting beatings abuse so I walked away
hardest thing I ever did
and got judged for ‘making him do it’ and ‘should have tried harder’
nobody could have tried as hard as I did-he refused to change so I took the kids and ran
I understand that, but I find it strange that people seem to rush into having a family and split so soon after. Having children changes a lot of things but I get the impression that some people (again no judgment, just opinion) seem to find it easier to walk away, then put in the effort to have a good relationship.It’s more socially acceptable now to leave a relationship that isn’t working. It would not have been the norm 30-40 years ago.
Typically both parents will be working now, compared to days gone by when only one parent would be making it difficult to survive financially. Also more government help now too.
this seems to be very common these days, I bet a lot of them say it was an ‘accident’ tooA lot of the single mums I know just had unprotected sex with men they didn't really know, trust or were even in a relationship with. Then men either didn't want to know or wanted to be involved in the childs life but not in a relationship with them.
Agreed, my brother was married for 5 years and his wife pestered him to have a baby. But as soon as the baby was born she totally changed and left them.I’m a single mum of a newborn, wasn’t planned this way...I’m currently adjusting and back at my parents with a newborn baby. He couldn’t handle our newborn daughter so I left a few days after I came home from hospital. I’m absolutely devastated but I had to leave for my own mental state as he wouldn’t speak or be in the same room as me. I don’t have any answers and so far he’s never asked for me back. I wouldn’t have had a baby if this was the situation I could see myself in. Sometimes situations are out of our hands and we have to act on the cards we have been dealt.
No, no one in particular, I just see it quite often on my social media, a lot of people my age (30) and younger, seem to have a “happy” relationship with the mother/father of their child(ren) and then it seems like 5 minutes have passed and they’ve split up. I know I can never really know what goes on behind closed doors, it just comes across like so many people aren’t really committed to their family.Are you referring to someone when you say some people seem to find it easier to walk away than put effort in? Not everyone shares if they have relationship issues so people may have tried things and others wouldn't know. Speaking from personal experience I didn't find it easy to meet someone being a single parent but that doesn't mean I'd stay in an unhappy relationship. It would depend on what the issues are causing the relationship breakdown if you would want to save it.. Example cheating.