This thread is so sad, we really shouldn’t have to put up with this. My scariest story was when I was working in Zante when I was 18 (2010). I’d met someone on Facebook who lived locally before I went there and was planning to meet up when there, he said he would look after me as he was a bit older. We met up, and during the first week he got me so drunk that I blacked out for part of it, and then he raped me.
At the time I blamed myself and thought it wasn’t rape as I was drunk. It’s only recently I realise that it was as it wasn’t consensual and I blacked out for most of it (luckily!). He would take the piss out of me for my remaining time out there (ended up being 8 weeks instead of 14). When we got home, he would then up at the bar I worked to see me. Luckily, I haven’t seen him for years now.
My ex would also make me have sex with him without consent (I felt like I had to). He would make me do things that I never wanted to do. I gave in to shut him up. That was only 3 years ago and my sex life is damaged because of it now. My current boyfriend is lovely but I can’t ever have sex sober now as I get so nervous.
At the time I blamed myself and thought it wasn’t rape as I was drunk. It’s only recently I realise that it was as it wasn’t consensual and I blacked out for most of it (luckily!). He would take the piss out of me for my remaining time out there (ended up being 8 weeks instead of 14). When we got home, he would then up at the bar I worked to see me. Luckily, I haven’t seen him for years now.
My ex would also make me have sex with him without consent (I felt like I had to). He would make me do things that I never wanted to do. I gave in to shut him up. That was only 3 years ago and my sex life is damaged because of it now. My current boyfriend is lovely but I can’t ever have sex sober now as I get so nervous.