I am equally annoyed, upset, heartbroken, and angry. One of my friends couldn’t come to celebrate my bday, fine, no big deal. Later found out it’s because he made plans with other friends that he preferred to go on. Ok, little hurt but again, fine, I get it, he doesn’t drink and my bday was very drink heavy. Called him out on it, just said I would have preferred for him to be honest about it, but no hard feelings.
Come to find out that a few weeks later, he blocked me and our mutual friends on literally everything. Ok, now I’m hurt and upset. Just disappeared from all our lives without a word, and with no way to ask if he’s ok because of course I’m also a little worried.
Cut to now, he’s unblocked me and had a massive go at me that I didn’t wish him a happy birthday, and has done the same to our mutual friends. What?! You cut me off without a single word, you clearly didn’t want me/us in your life, so why would I wish you a happy birthday? Not that I could anyway, you had me blocked. I am so angry and annoyed but still hurt because none of us have any idea what we did to be cut off, but also, you made your bed, so lie in it? I don’t deserve to be treated like this