Myself. I wish I could escape my own mind sometimes. My confidence is horrendous and I really don’t help myself
Thank you, I'm going to reply back to your kind post properly in the morning as I'm absolutely shattered (or later on if I can't fall asleep).@Hope96, I've seen your posts and am worried about you. I hope you don't mind me making a couple of recommendations? These come from a feeling of truly wanting to help, but please feel free to ignore me if I'm annoying.
Have you tried drinking cherry juice with dinner? That can help with sleep - as can melatonin supplements, which you should be able to buy over the counter (without prescription). Otherwise, perhaps consider seeing a doctor and getting a limited-time prescription for sleeping pills ... the only hesitation I have in recommending this option is that most of them are incredibly addictive and hard to break free from (some will even leave you with a hangover-type feeling in the morning).
Also, based on what you've said about your ex's things being in your room, I think that might play a huge part in the way you're feeling. I think donating the gifts would be an excellent idea ... if you were to put them in a box within your house, you'd *probably* still think about them. I'm very hippy, woo-woo-ish, but I think you need to shift the energy in your room ... buy some white sage incense and wand it around the room as if you're conducting an orchestra. Wash your curtains / blinds (or replace them), shampoo your curtains and rugs (or replace them), give the walls a fresh coat of paint (if you're able to), change up your duvet cover / bedspread. Pinterest has great ideas for dreamy bedrooms. By doing these things, you will introduce new energy into the room which will help greatly, I'm sure.
I have the exact same problem with a couple we're friends with. They just always reply with "whatever you want to do" or "we're easy we'll just do whatever you want to do" and it is exhausting sometimes!! It would be nice for them to say "we'll do this or that" etc. They probably think they're being nice by letting us decide and are happy to go along with whatever we want to do but sometimes it would be nice not to have the responsibility!When friends make vague plans. They think they’re being casual and carefree but it just makes me anxious. I like solid plans, I want to know what we’re doing and where we’re doing it. I don’t want to have to keep asking for more information - just provide me with the basic details up front!
ugh i wish i could but my fiance is also close to her and he isn't as annoyed as me. i'm just distancing myself for now and waiting for it to pass.Can’t you uninvite her?
One for the real ghost story threadWe went to view some old house for renovation, it's an absolute mess but we like it. Needs serious work. It has some serious Blair witch project vibes. I made a video of the viewing and for some reason I can hear some piano playing in the background towards the end of th video. House hasn't been lived in for 9 years. And i honestly don't remember hearing it at the time. Neighbors aren't close enough. Wtf. Bf just told me it's an inheritance sale.
I loveeeee ghost stories, ghost podcasts, horror movies but fuckkk!! buying a haunted house ahhhhOne for the real ghost story thread
Not sure what your placement experience is/was, but I can guarantee it wasn't anything compared to what my friend had to go thru.The rest of my cohort getting their degree classifications whilst I'm having an horrific final placement experience. Feels like I'll never get there.
Do it! You could make a vlog with all your adventures.I loveeeee ghost stories, ghost podcasts, horror movies but fuckkk!! buying a haunted house ahhhh