Saw a few friends yesterday evening and this one particular friend keeps making offhanded comments about the little things, the latest being my bog standard Longchamps bag looking like a retired English teacher's bag (
) and being "triggering" because her toxic ex used to use one too. She's seen me use the same bag for the past 8 years and she hasn't met this ex in like 20 years, find something new to be upset about ffs. It's not an uncommon bag, it's basic af, is she walking around traumatized because of it everyday?
It's never one comment big enough to motivate me to say something back but so many tiny ones piling up so if I react, I'll look like a crazy woman flying off the handle over someone not liking my purse or something. Tired of people.