i know a lot of people have said this before and I’ll say it again now but 1lb a week is more than enough. It is realistic, sustainable and healthy weight loss. Why are you not satisfied with the amazing work you’ve done so far?
also, weight loss isn’t a quick fix, it’s a journey that can take a long time to see the final results, it can - and safely, should - take months in reality. This is why a lot of people give up because after a couple of months they don’t see results and think ‘oh well that’s it, it’s not working for me what’s the point’
whereas if you persist and keep at it you WILL see results.
I know what you saying and I keep telling myself that and to be honest I know this sounds shallow but maybe some others can resonate.
I am a very visual person.
I love fashion and clothes
If I don't look good I don't feel good so how I look in clothes affects my mood.
Over the last few years I would say 5 or 6 I slowly put on weight.
I went from being 8-10 to 12-14 i remember at around 11 stone maybe bit under trying find bridesmaids dress that dident make me feel fat or worse look pregnant
But that year I spent lot on hair clothes and makeup and managed find clothes that flattered slightly larger figure
2017 fell pregnant with 4th child.
2018 spring 4th arrived hates summer of 2018 as felt huge.
Lost a tiny bit through breastfeeding and rules lots clothes out.
Moved house 2018 new years eve.
Spent all 2019 renovating the house and dealing with a toddler I just wore clothes comfort not fashion or style .
Summers always feel harder when you larger winter I can hide in jumpers.
Used to love wearing jeans not worn jeans in over a year none of them fit.
I remember last year 2020 felt large start of 2020 but then March onwards gained.
But think I gained the most another stone in autumn winter as size 14 fit me last summer it doesn't now.
Last year when shops reopened to cheer myself I brought lots new clothes some difent fit but I did I will slim into was sale purchase others I liked and wore last year that don't look right now.
I know uk retailer sizes vary.
I have lots size 16 tops and dresses that sort fit but huge issue is my tummy.
They all make me look pregnant and feel miserable.
Then my mind spirals when I don't even fit or look good in a size 16.
I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that size but this is largest size I have ever been mentally feels so hard.
Feel so restricted because of my tummy what styles I can wear.
I feel annoyed with myself I allowed myself to gain so much weight.
I have never had as much trouble losing weight as I have now and my mum says it's my age and I have to accept in bigger which is depressing mindset.
Theres that saying choose your hard.
Being overweight is hard and losing weight is hard.
I'm not going to give up im just frustrated I want to see a difference.
Being able to fit into a size 14 again
, smaller tummy, getting under the 12 stone mark those are my short to med term goals
I'm 41 mid July and least like to achieve my then.
I would like shop autumn and winter and easily fit into a 14 even a 12 maybe.
We well into may now and I guess I have to accept this spring summer due to slow weightless I will be continue to be in the overweight category , look large and be restricted with clothes styles as so many don't flatter me right now and next spring/ summer 2022 it will be different.
I see so many clothes and think that would look nice if I was slim.
I have tried recently to have massive wardrobe sort out as so many clothes that don't fit me or i feel
tit in is making me feel miserable.
Had 2 big sort outs over the last 12 months and packed away stuff cabt bare part with separate to my wardrobe.
I brought a few new things lately jumble sale charity shops and sales as wanted stuff that looked good now at size 16 and made me feel good.
Went thorough wardrobe again today and tried literally everything on.
Took out 2 items dident like
2 items on not sure list.
Used coats in middle and separated 1 end to stuff that fits now and looks good.
The other end is size 14 so if any of it fitted would be a massive non scale victory.
Also at other end is some size 16 dresses and tops that fit but make my tummy look huge.
Decided as trying declutter anyway and not spend fortune all im going to buy for may and June is 1 pair jeggings. 1 pair decent leggings, handbags shoes or jewellery.
Some nice and well fitting underwear.
I now have plenty tops.
I need high waisted tight suck in trousers with long length floaty tops to disguse my tummy.
Have few peplum tops.
Empire line is tricky as feels very maternity but can be flattering.
Have few tent boho floaty dresses husband loathes but if hot this summer want something I feel comfy in.
Recently did new style guide and colours as thought make shopping easier.
Apparently black is not a good colour for me which is hard so trying stick patterned or textured blacks and maybe lighter tops as compromise.
Tried on literally everything including 2 black dresses and black not necessarily slimming on me still shows what feels like huge tummy.
We told when larger wear black or over sized will solve everything when I fact they don't make us look good they sometimes make us appear larger.
Theres definatly a skill to wearing flattering mid size to larger clothes.
Retailers and the media always focus on smaller sizes so ever seen something in catalogue and ordered your size then looks terrible.
I have seen some stylish influences and larger celebrities dress well for their size but its defiantly trickier.
We have to dress to conceal ares body we feel less confident about but also accentuate better features we do like maybe our bust or our arms.
My thighs and tummy feels like area I hate the most.
I wear a lot stripes expecially vertical, so e semi tailored peices like long length shirt with collar with high waisted trousers and blazer can create slimming effect.
I also love big prints leopard print or florals.
Anyways enough waffling about clothes.
Just have hope continue be good results will show.
For me hopefully see that when move down a stone bracket or a drees size they say as rule of thumb 10lb loss is a dress size we will see.
Crazy weather here. Another day domestic drudgery
Trying to desperately declutter and catching up laundry .
Have a good day everyone.
Might have to do one of ricks walking workouts you tube get my steps In.