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Some people are bitter and hate to see anyone happy. More reflection on them than you just remember that.
Yes definitely! Funnily enough most of these comments come from the older women who got married young because they were pregnant and then their husbands cheated and divorced them for other women🙄! I can understand why they’re bitter, but they need to keep their comments to themselves!

anyway, we can’t let other people’s comments upset us because everyone has an opinion when you’re getting married!😂
 
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Yes definitely! Funnily enough most of these comments come from the older women who got married young because they were pregnant and then their husbands cheated and divorced them for other women🙄! I can understand why they’re bitter, but they need to keep their comments to themselves!

anyway, we can’t let other people’s comments upset us because everyone has an opinion when you’re getting married!😂
I think no matter what you do people have an opinion about all the important things in your life, wedding, house and kids etc...
I know myself I cannot fadum people who get married before buying a house but that's just me and my thought process. Do I judge people as they decide to get married before buying a house, absolutely I think it's nuts but do I say it to their faces absolutely not sure it's their lives it doesn't effect me. I don't pretend like I'm perfect and nobody is we all be judging people behind their backs but I never say it to them, it's going to achieve nothing
 
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What's everyones thoughts on buying a wedding dress online? Is it too risky? (I'm looking at Etsy)

There's a two-piece dress I LOVE from a wedding designer and I'm going to try it on in March - the skirt alone is £1550. A very similar two piece is available on Etsy for £350. Obviously I would need to get alterations for a perfect fit. It has good reviews and it's made in Russia.

I don't knowwwwww
 
What's everyones thoughts on buying a wedding dress online? Is it too risky? (I'm looking at Etsy)

There's a two-piece dress I LOVE from a wedding designer and I'm going to try it on in March - the skirt alone is £1550. A very similar two piece is available on Etsy for £350. Obviously I would need to get alterations for a perfect fit. It has good reviews and it's made in Russia.

I don't knowwwwww
If it has a decent returns policy you could give it a try? That’s a big saving!

The difference might be in the fit/quality though, but no harm in trying it to see.
 
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What's everyones thoughts on buying a wedding dress online? Is it too risky? (I'm looking at Etsy)

There's a two-piece dress I LOVE from a wedding designer and I'm going to try it on in March - the skirt alone is £1550. A very similar two piece is available on Etsy for £350. Obviously I would need to get alterations for a perfect fit. It has good reviews and it's made in Russia.

I don't knowwwwww
I'd read the reviews and see if you can return it if its absolutely awful but it's worth a shot
 
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What's everyones thoughts on buying a wedding dress online? Is it too risky? (I'm looking at Etsy)

There's a two-piece dress I LOVE from a wedding designer and I'm going to try it on in March - the skirt alone is £1550. A very similar two piece is available on Etsy for £350. Obviously I would need to get alterations for a perfect fit. It has good reviews and it's made in Russia.

I don't knowwwwww
I think if you can return it ok you’ll be fine, just in case the fit/quality aren’t what you anticipated.

After one of the most stressful weeks of my life, I’ve managed to save our wedding and find a new venue for the same date 👏🏻
 
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I think no matter what you do people have an opinion about all the important things in your life, wedding, house and kids etc...
I know myself I cannot fadum people who get married before buying a house but that's just me and my thought process. Do I judge people as they decide to get married before buying a house, absolutely I think it's nuts but do I say it to their faces absolutely not sure it's their lives it doesn't effect me. I don't pretend like I'm perfect and nobody is we all be judging people behind their backs but I never say it to them, it's going to achieve nothing
My mum has always told me " don't take criticism from anyone you wouldn't go to for advice". Which as there's about 5 people id ask for advice from in my life who care about me there's no criticism I take 🤣.

My friends tried it with my house. It took me a year and a half to find the perfect house with my bf and all I got was " oh I'd hate to have a 4 bedroom ... We walked round one and it felt like a mansion to us!" This from my friend who I was so supportive of when she got her 2 bed new build. However it's socially unacceptable to say " yeah well I wouldn't want your 2 bed either it's too small".

Don't get why they cant be happy for me!
 
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Is anyone thinking about music for theirs? I thought I was really going to struggle and that my fiancé would veto a lot but we decided fairly quickly!
We are both a little alternative and I really wanted something sweet but also different for our first dance so we went with a Jimmy Eat World song! (if you've seen A Cinderella Story you'll know the one)
Two weeks to go for us now! 😬
 
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I’ve had all my ceremony/first dance music planned for ages 😂 just need to create our dinner and party playlists now. One of the most fun parts of wedding planning I think 😁
 
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Is anyone thinking about music for theirs? I thought I was really going to struggle and that my fiancé would veto a lot but we decided fairly quickly!
We are both a little alternative and I really wanted something sweet but also different for our first dance so we went with a Jimmy Eat World song! (if you've seen A Cinderella Story you'll know the one)
Two weeks to go for us now! 😬
Great choice! We are having With Me by Sum 41
 
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Is anyone thinking about music for theirs? I thought I was really going to struggle and that my fiancé would veto a lot but we decided fairly quickly!
We are both a little alternative and I really wanted something sweet but also different for our first dance so we went with a Jimmy Eat World song! (if you've seen A Cinderella Story you'll know the one)
Two weeks to go for us now! 😬
2 weeks for us too!!

we’ve actually just changed our exit song, and our first dance. We went through all sorts of options and decided on them quicker than we would have liked as the registrar demanded our planner much sooner than we were expecting and then regretted what we had chosen. Here you me was actually one of our options!
 
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Great choice! We are having With Me by Sum 41
Yaaaas 🙌 this and here you me are both amazing songs!
I was leaning towards take on the world by you me at six. Think we're going for something less slow dance and more upbeat though
 
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Yaaaas 🙌 this and here you me are both amazing songs!
I was leaning towards take on the world by you me at six. Think we're going for something less slow dance and more upbeat though
YMAS are my fave band!!! Other half hates them tho 🤣
 
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We're having better half of me by Tom walker for first dance and last song after cermony might be imagine dragons-on top of the world 🌍
 
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I keep going back and forth with entrance songs

We got engaged whilst thinking out loud was playing and The Piano Guys has done a beautiful arrangement of it

One of the first movies we watched together was The Greatest Showman and again The Piano Guys has done a stunning cover of Rewrite the Stars

My fiance has taught himself the piano and plays Turning Page all the time so thought that would be cute since it now just reminds me of him
 
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My aisle song is
Ruelle - I get to love you
And our first dance song is
Calum Scott - you are the reason
I haven’t told anyone the song choices for the wedding.

theres a lot the wedding the guests don’t know, lots of cute surprises.. ps. 4 DAYS ❤
 
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I knew I had the pick a first dance song but hadn’t thought about anything else!

So I need an entrance song too… what else have I missed? Still knew to this 😂
 
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I knew I had the pick a first dance song but hadn’t thought about anything else!

So I need an entrance song too… what else have I missed? Still knew to this 😂
We need an entrance song, 3 songs for ceremony, exit song and then first dance!

There's probs more 😅
 
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