Apologies for the delay guys I promised you last week I'll report back to you end of the weekend with news about ercan & vicky & here's some information I've heard.
So myself & few guys were with ercan yesterday afternoon for a few hours watching the cup final & throwing out congratulations on his recent engagement as well as having a general catch up.
Anyways I found out quite a lot interesting news from the engagement. Firstly the daily mail sensationalised headline of £220k ring is absolute bullocks. The ring was between heavily discounted it's around the 8/12 grand bracket. A deposit was put down in December then a agreement was put in place privately about it being advertised via social media when the engagement became public knowledge. But the jewellers put a spanner in the works by basically alluding to the pre planning beforehand with their congratulation story. (Which made everyone aware who follows Vicky's social media that the proposal wasn't a surprise). Vicky had all input in the ring ,shape, size, model, presentation. Bare in mind she's been down this road twice before so she's a expert at it..
I'm not sure 100% sure if he paid for the ring so that's down for everyone here to speculate. Me personally I would say due to vickys social media presence no he didn't. And the fact that she's been hungry for a proposal for years it's all her.
Ercan was asked if he was happy with the engagement, whether it was his idea , and whether his family was happy with the news. I studied his body language intensely when he was grilled to these questions & I got the vibe of a man whose mastered the art of putting on a brave face. Not once yesterday when we was talking about the engagement did I witness him being ecstatic or beaming with happiness or pride of someone's whose engaged. He was very subued ,emotionless & didn't really have any enthusiasm about speaking on the whole situation.
He said his brothers where shocked about engagement obviously they have their reservations & concerns on relationship but not much they can do if someone isn't ready to be helped you just have wait for them to realise themselves.
He alluded to the fact that Vicky has frozen her eggs back in January & he was pushed into a corner & basically giving an ultimatum basically around xmas time , that they live together , share milo together & she needs more commitment of him in 2022 either via engagement or they try for a baby.
The ultimatum was more the case of if you don't give or show me you want a marriage or family with me , we will go our separate ways. Like I've stressed before on previous threads they have a very volatile relationship , it's constant up & down yoyo flex on a weekly basis so the dynamics of the engagement wasn't built on strong grounds or from ercans heart. It was more this happens or we are finished type of way.
He was asked roughly when they see wedding occurring, he said within next 6/12 months. I'm sensing thats more vicky than him. Whose in a rush. Especially as its taken nearly 3 years for a proposal & months of heavy hints. The wedding will be up north of course. Obviously heavily subsided.
I think Vicky will try get a magazine deal out of the wedding similar to what Jess Wright done with hers.
I feel with vicky's age & her fertility life span decreasing due to her love of alcohol & drugs, She would want a marriage & baby all done before end 2023. So roughly 18 months to complete both tasks.
With two failed engagements already & with vicky being the public eye it's imperative for her & her image this isn't a hat trick of doomed engagements.
I'm just getting to work at present so I'll touch on a bit more of what was discussed yesterday afternoon which i havent mentioned later tonight. But yeah just bare with me tattlers.