Ultimategirlgang #2 I think we are in for a year of some verrrry thirsty single girl antics

[pommobear]

I find it pathetic how so many men claim to have been really miserable in their marriages but won't leave til they have someone else lined up.

 

[SouthfieldsGrid]

She realised she made a mistake sharing them, owned it and stopped. I think that’s a good thing

 

[Bental]

My partner left me around the same time for someone else. I have our home up for sale as I just don't want to be here, it's not my home it's our home and I want somewhere that's all mine to start my new life fresh so could be a similar reason. Also the memories, it's all bad here and reminds me how much of our life at the end was a lie

 

[Rosieee]

I didn't know swim classes were such a sensitive topic ,,,

 

[KittyKittyMeow]

He is a long time friend of hers, he and his wife and kids have featured on her account many times. I expect he is just a friend supporting friend going this at the moment. His wife only had a happy family post up 5 days ago so highly doubt there's anything untoward (but here for the tea if its going to be poured)! She's trolling her trolls perhaps good for her I say getting out after being stuck at home raising 4 kids for the last 8 years pretty much single all that time too. If I were in her shoes I'd being the exact same... sure its all a bit showy but god only knows whats go on in the background to push her to this sudden flip in character!

 

[Poptart]

Oh this thread has turned into mumsnet. Excellent

 

[pommobear]

Imagine being so stupid as to think a bloke who jettisons his wife and four young kids is a good catch.

 

[Effeffess]

It's funny how if a woman was poor then being a single mum of 4, unemployed, too lazy to take the kids to any clubs, gets them in bed by 7 every night so she can start drinking - this would have Daily Mail readers frothing at the mouth

But if you're wealthy and pretty it's fine

(Just a light hearted observation, don't come for me)

 

[Nixen]

How did she have the strength to meet the other woman! She’s a more forgiving woman than I would be that’s for sure.

I would have wanted to meet the person if they were going to be around my children. I’d also like them to meet ME so that I’d be a real human to them, not some imaginary ex wife that he’d no doubt be talking shit about. And meeting her in person would make it much easier for me to make an accurate voodoo doll of her

 

[Sooz]

The girlfriend is some sleazy totty from his work!!

And she insisted on meeting her in order to check out who was around her girls!!!

God she's got guts.

I'd say the OW was shitting herself. It's all fun and games until you have to mind 4 kids every weekend and you have a steely-eyed Liv giving you an unsympathetic once over.

Edit: Just looked at LinkedIn and amused to note the ex is "Head of Investment Strategy and Risk" (!!!) I guess his Investment Strategy is to be as Risky as humanly possible!

 

[pommobear]

Who the actual fuck would want to be lumbered with someone else's 4 kids? My own are annoying enough.

 

[Lalalalaaaaaa85]

Liv is in a million times a better position than the mistress. Mistress now has to be the one worrying when he works late and Liv can just enjoy her life and the girls

 

[LennonRoad]

If my husband or dog or handbag goes missing - I won’t go to the police.

Oh no.

I will go to Tattle

 

[Sweetnessandlight]

If it was me I'd be hey yeah take the kids for a holiday, I hope they're a nightmare for you and gf rethinks her whole affair. It's a win win for Liv because she knows the kids adore her and she gets a weekend off. He was a prick anyway by the sounds of it. Hope the gf has a horrible holiday

 

[Tell.A.Tale]

You’re better people than I am as I want to know what happened…

 

[ooh scandalous]

Can't help but feel really sad for her. The house was/is beautiful and set up to be the perfect forever home for the girls to grow up in. I know we don't know the true circumstances but I can't even imagine how it would feel knowing your husband is willing to throw that all away for the sake of a sordid affair. Nothing guaranteed in life I suppose. I hope the move allows her to move forwards in a positive light.

 

[pommobear]

Please don’t all come at me for saying this as I’m absolutely not justifying what he’s done (my dad left my mum when I was 8). I’m just trying to understand.

What if it is that brunette and he realised he needed more by way of someone with equal intellect / ambition as him?
I like Liv so please don’t get me wrong on this. I’m just saying if it is that woman, looking at her resume - she’s a very different person to Liv.

Would we all be responding this way if one of our girlfriends left their husband for someone that was better suited to them and made them happier? Just thinking out loud, not excusing him.

I would if they had an affair and left their husband and four young children to shack up in London eith the other man, yes.

 

[Nellyellie]

I knew there was a Swiss finishing school but didn’t know about Millfield.

The odd thing has always been that she has the resources to have a live out nanny, live in nanny, au pair or daily mother’s helper, but instead she insists on doing everything herself. Now she’s admitting her kids have missed out on opportunities and she ‘gives herself a hard time about it’.

Imagine being able to give your kids lots of lovely extracurriculars and not have to worry about the cost, but don’t because you are such a control freak you can’t have a daily mother’s helper for a couple of hours each afternoon then your kids go to bed at a normal time.

I actually don’t recall her ever mentioning play dates either except the one time another influencer visited and her kids trashed the joint.

No one should ever be cheated on, but I imagine Liv is hard work. She’s said so herself. We’ve also seen her kids behave in demanding and entitled ways. Maybe they could do with some clubs?

But Liv’s not a Club Mum; she’s a Cocktail Mum. Cool, babe.

I don’t want to be too netmums about this but I disagree… I wouldn’t want a nanny looking after my children, just because she’s rich doesn’t mean she automatically wants to palm her kids off to someone else

 

[Sweetnessandlight]

Liv is laughing. She has her lovely children, has gotten rid of the dead wood and can date/ find a new partner on her terms. I know if I was choosing again there would be a few changes.

 

[Showmethemoonie]

I think it’s telling that she’s gone away with the girls for the first time in ages. I know from friends that it’s often easier to just deal with the kids alone rather than have another useless child in tow in the form of a husband!