Anyone catch puddings actual name today? It bugs me they don't tell us what it is
Totally agree, I unfollowed when this happened too. Such a fix that wedding was.I started following them just before pudding went to live with them and I really liked them. Then they go pudding and I noticed all the swearing and patronising way Darren spoke to him. Then they won the wedding and started asking for things so I got annoyed and unfollowed.
They shouldn't have him on social media at all. People will be able to recognise him, coupled with the fact they are open about his hearing difficulty. He is easily identifiable.
I agree, and he certainly seems to be their meal ticket for all the freebees.It makes me very uncomfortable how easily identifiable he is. I used to like their feed but recently unfollowed due to their open showcasing of pudding. It doesn’t feel right.
And surely time to be settling into his new family....I really don't like how small children have no say in whether they get plastered over social media or not. My kids are teenagers and I always ask to use a photoI work in a residential setting with looked after children and many who the heath trusts have full parental responsibility.
We have processes in place re: organisational media to prevent families finding children when they have no contact. Their behaviour with Pudding drives me up the wall. As others have said in this thread, he is easily identifiable due to their social media presence and openness about his hearing difficulties, photos of him at crèche etc etc.
Social worker needs to step in!! This child deserves privacy which he is not getting.
I agree about the language, and as they obviously read on here, Darren mentioned it yesterday.I like them but I don’t like there language around pudding especially Darren.. they haven’t had him long at all and there constantly swearing I do wonder what life pudding came from because they’re quite open about everything do with him and where they live and where they’re going to be and what time etc.. like even there wedding reception everyone knows the date and time because they put it on Instagram.. is that not a danger to pudding or what?
It's more of a washing hamper than a bathI’ve not really followed them, except for when PTWM gives them a mention - surely if they’ve adopted him, they need to be a bit more discreet with showing him in e-v-e-r-y photo?? The ones of him in the bath I know you can’t see anything, but still, I naively perhaps would have thought they’d be shielding him from social media (not sure of his circumstances prior to being adopted)?
I follow Nick King and his partner and they have two adopted kids - never shown their faces or names, but still manage to engage with followers and be funny along with it - perhaps these two could take some lessons from him?