Say what ever you want about her but one thing il say is I remember her driving half way up the country to meet him on a Friday then drive back home and back up and down again on Sunday to collect them if she was as devious and spiteful as people are saying she wouldn't of bothered doing that, it was her decision which obviously means she wanted the kids to have a relationship with him, him or his family just don't give a feck imo, all he had to do was go onto smyths have something delivered, order a birthday cake from somewhere and had it delivered, he'd lots of options, says a lot about him and his family