Or “just relax” I didn’t track last month but its difficult to just switch your mind off from it and I wouldn’t say I wasn’t trying because I was still all too aware when I was ovulating, just didn’t confirm it from testing etc.We haven’t really tried this month - we’ve been really busy, not always at home so haven’t used OPKs, conceive plus lube, been really lax on the vitamins etc.
We’ve still had fairly regular sex, but just for us. As much as I’m absolutely desperate to be pregnant and would obviously be thrilled if we are, I don’t think I’d tell people we weren’t ‘trying’ this month. There’s nothing more annoying than the stereotypical ‘it’ll happen when you stop trying’