Just use the snooze for 30 days option- I used to ‘snooze’ everyone with babies/could get pregnant etc so that I could avoid their news but keep up to date with the rest of family/friends.Anyone else considering coming off/or has come off social media? I think one more Baby announcement, gender reveal, birth story will push me over the edge.
it’s making me feel bad seeing them and just feeling sad and (being honest) bitter.
Sometimes suddenly changing irregular (for you) periods can be a sign of other health problems. I would try and timeline when these changes occurred and get yourself to the GP for blood tests to see if anything else is amiss. I was ttc but factors made us decide to wait until next summer to try again. I’ve had prolonged health issues and problems with my cycle too. I’m just trying to take it that I will spend the next year getting in better health and I recommend you try to do the same. That mindset helps me to frame it in a bit more of a positive light which obviously doesn’t always make things better but it can some days.Feel so deflated today… had irregular periods for around 7/8 months now (long cycles of 35 days+) and was recently diagnosed with PCOS and adenomyosis. My periods have always been heavy and regular and suddenly they’ve become extremely long in cycle length and light. I’m worried I’m not ovulating and I’ll eventually lose them altogether. Not TTC for another year but I’m terrified I won’t be able tojust another thing to add to my already difficult life
Thank you. I appreciate just how lucky I was with my son and we didn’t try, we got very lucky, but it didn’t involve all these dpo thoughts and testing. This is so hard xDefinitely not out, 10DPO is early
Definitely take time away from social. It’s good for the soul. I have two accounts on Instagram (Facebook is such a non starter for me lol) and on one I have friends and family and the other is stuff I like, like true crime, photography, Christmas, food, travel etc, and I just stick to that one and my feed is full of lots of lovely things I like.Anyone else considering coming off/or has come off social media? I think one more Baby announcement, gender reveal, birth story will push me over the edge.
it’s making me feel bad seeing them and just feeling sad and (being honest) bitter.
Only managed to DTD once this month as I’m recovering from Covid and feel like shit most of the time
Discussed sperm analysis with my husband and although to begin with he was very open to testing etc he’s now a bit reluctant and saying I’m being impatient. I do sometimes think I am, but then I also think this is our 9th cycle and I’m almost 35. Hopefully can talk him round to it in the next few weeks. Can get this done privately for around £100 and have results in the same week rather than waiting for an NHS appointment. I just think it could rule a lot of things out and means I don’t have to immediately undergo invasive tests.
Has anyone got any recommended places for fertility tests in London please?Very similar situation to us last year and I was pleased we spent the money to rule things out
So sorry you’re going through thisNot sure how to add spoiler
TW: Miscarriages
Hi all,
Is anyone here TTC after recurrent miscarriages? Ive had three miscarriages since December 2021, the last one being a missed miscarriage discovered at my 12 week scan. I had medical management and have tested negative since and now just awaiting my first period. My doctor has agreed to refer me to the recurrent miscarriage clinic but hes doing some blood tests next week in the meantime. Our baby also got sent off for testing and we are awaiting to hear back. I know I should wait till results come back from the tests but all I can think of is trying again, if my tests come back normal then what? I mean I’m lucky to already have a toddler so know I can carry to term I just don’t understand it all. I dont know what I’m asking reallyFor ladies who have gone through the same did you wait to try again once you had tests? Im just aware it could take months and i just feel like I cant keep waiting, I wish I could forget about it all for a few months but it’s constantly on my mind
Sending baby dust to you all
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TW: Miscarriages
Hi all,
Is anyone here TTC after recurrent miscarriages? Ive had three miscarriages since December 2021, the last one being a missed miscarriage discovered at my 12 week scan. I had medical management and have tested negative since and now just awaiting my first period. My doctor has agreed to refer me to the recurrent miscarriage clinic but hes doing some blood tests next week in the meantime. Our baby also got sent off for testing and we are awaiting to hear back. I know I should wait till results come back from the tests but all I can think of is trying again, if my tests come back normal then what? I mean I’m lucky to already have a toddler so know I can carry to term I just don’t understand it all. I dont know what I’m asking reallyFor ladies who have gone through the same did you wait to try again once you had tests? Im just aware it could take months and i just feel like I cant keep waiting, I wish I could forget about it all for a few months but it’s constantly on my mind
Sending baby dust to you all
Bar the covid this could have been me writing this! Same age and same cycle and my husband loves to say I’m being impatient. He really don’t get it sometimes and he has a kid already so he’s not as ‘desperate’ as me. It took a lot for me to get him to do a SA as well, we fell out over it many times. In the end I got Exseed which is meant to be the best at home one. He said that was DISGUSTING, and in the end he had it done at our fertility clinic in London, I think it was around £150. Hope you feel better soon xOnly managed to DTD once this month as I’m recovering from Covid and feel like shit most of the time
Discussed sperm analysis with my husband and although to begin with he was very open to testing etc he’s now a bit reluctant and saying I’m being impatient. I do sometimes think I am, but then I also think this is our 9th cycle and I’m almost 35. Hopefully can talk him round to it in the next few weeks. Can get this done privately for around £100 and have results in the same week rather than waiting for an NHS appointment. I just think it could rule a lot of things out and means I don’t have to immediately undergo invasive tests.
Hey sending you lots of loveOnly managed to DTD once this month as I’m recovering from Covid and feel like shit most of the time
Discussed sperm analysis with my husband and although to begin with he was very open to testing etc he’s now a bit reluctant and saying I’m being impatient. I do sometimes think I am, but then I also think this is our 9th cycle and I’m almost 35. Hopefully can talk him round to it in the next few weeks. Can get this done privately for around £100 and have results in the same week rather than waiting for an NHS appointment. I just think it could rule a lot of things out and means I don’t have to immediately undergo invasive tests.
I think it’s only a reliable in dictation if you know where it is normally and you notice the difference? But I’ve also read it’s not a reliable indicator at allDoes anyone check their cervix during the tww? Mine changes from day to night so no idea if it’s a good indication of pregnancy or not
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