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I just got my blood results back and I have elevated TSH levels which indicate hypothyroidism but it’s not conclusive. Dr will now be doing further blood testing to confirm. If I do have hypothyroidism it could explain my early miscarriage. She also advised me to stop TTC until my health and mental health are in a better way. 😭


I’m so sorry 😢


This is shocking! I don’t think I could ever talk to them again
She is lovely, and was mortified! He’s awful…everyone in our friendship group just puts up with him for her. He’s so competitive. There’s 3 of us that are close and I got married first, then the other one got engaged but they are the only ones having a successful pregnancy so think he thinks this is “their thing” that the rest of us don’t have. Anyway! Positivity and love to all. 💕
 
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AF due Wednesday/Thursday.. going to take a test on Tuesday/Wednesday as I’m going to a gig on Wednesday night so want to make sure if I need to be careful or not. Not holding out much hope tbh
BFN.. guess it’s time to wait for AF
 
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BFN today but period is a day late. Had a couple of cramps but don't feel like I'm getting my period. I'm always like clockwork with AF even down to the hour so not sure what's going on.
 
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BFN today but period is a day late. Had a couple of cramps but don't feel like I'm getting my period. I'm always like clockwork with AF even down to the hour so not sure what's going on.
Do you track ovulation? Is it possible that you’ve ovulated later than usual so maybe too early for BFP?
 
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I just got my blood results back and I have elevated TSH levels which indicate hypothyroidism but it’s not conclusive. Dr will now be doing further blood testing to confirm. If I do have hypothyroidism it could explain my early miscarriage. She also advised me to stop TTC until my health and mental health are in a better way. 😭
Thank you for checking back in. So sorry to hear there may be some complications, however, you’ve done the right thing by seeking help xx

an update on my chart - it’s become even more bonkers.
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First cycle tracking again, I'm Day 17 no peak and no high readings at all. All coming low and 0.3-0.4... Remind me why we do this again? lol
 
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First cycle tracking again, I'm Day 17 no peak and no high readings at all. All coming low and 0.3-0.4... Remind me why we do this again? lol
What time of day are you testing?

I saw someone on I think it was Reddit if it wasn’t on here say they didn’t get a high peak reading the month they got pregnant but they had EWCM and other symptoms so they knew they ovulated then got BFP.
 
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What time of day are you testing?

I saw someone on I think it was Reddit if it wasn’t on here say they didn’t get a high peak reading the month they got pregnant but they had EWCM and other symptoms so they knew they ovulated then got BFP.
Well all weekend I was tested at around 1/2pm as I know to do it in the middle of the day, but now I'm at work it's more like 6am and 4-5pm lol. I use both the easy@home and clearblue digital and I just keep getting the flashing smiley. I never get EWCM or ovulation symptoms (which I've told my GP) but my bloods tests were 'satisfactory' and no further investigation is required. Whatever that's supposed to mean
 
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Thank you, I don't know how exactly to move forward right now. I know it was super early but I was still so excited and that little poppy seed was so very wanted. 💔😔
It’s like we’re being punished for wanting it so much 💔
I recently read that there are a higher percentage of chemical pregnancies than people realise but most don’t test early enough to find out ☹
 
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Thank you, I don't know how exactly to move forward right now. I know it was super early but I was still so excited and that little poppy seed was so very wanted. 💔😔
Just take it each day as it comes lovely. Take the time you need and look after yourself x
 
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Thank you all for your words of support. Thank God for all of you, since I can't speak to anyone else about this. We are all on this journey together. Sending love to you all ❤❤

I'm going to have a mega pint of wine now
 
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I was on these threads number 1 & 2…now 18 months later and I’ve not even had a sniff at a BFP.

Completely unrelated, but I was having a colposcopy the other day and mentioned about my periods lasting a month or more at a time (app was with a private gynaecologist) anyway, he looked back on my notes which stated thickened womb lining, which nothing was ever done, and just left to deal with these horrendous periods that are debilitating, it’s a worry to leave the house at times they’re that heavy…but he was so concerned and lovely, and has referred me for an ultrasound to see if it’s got thicker and to investigate a bit more.
I feel like there might actually be light at the end of the tunnel after dealing with prolonged periods for so long. How I am not anaemic I have no idea! I haven’t been to the docs yet about how long it’s taking to conceive, not quite ready for that her yet (I have pcos too so always going to take longer) but if my periods are sorted that might be a step closer, or maybe I’ll be infertile, who knows. When googling thickened endometrium, it doesn’t sound particularly good! Depending on biopsy results, it can turn to cancer and you’d need a hysterectomy. Google is not your friend 😂

sorry for long ramblings but nobody knows about TTC and other half doesn’t really understand as a bloke, although he’s as supportive as can be in this situation. Feels like times running out for us really, both 34. xx
 
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BFN today at 12DPO. I’ve lost all hope that this is ever going to happen for us now.
 
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