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This I think is what I struggle with the most! I am happy for them because it’s obviously the biggest blessing but it really bloody hurts! Treat yourself to something nice and be kind to yourself 🤍A friend just called me , she’s pregnant. She suffered a miscarriage a few months ago & im truly delighted for her but there’s always the feeling of being punched in the gut for myself. Hate feeling it.
Hope everyone is ok
After my recent chemical I’m not tracking or anything for a while, I’m just going to let my body do it’s thing and hopefully I’ll have one of those “we just stopped trying!” stories one day!
Sending love and hope to you all 🤍
I've had 3 friends recently announce pregnancies and if I'm 100% honest I didn't feel happy for them. That's something I really struggle with.
Me too. I feel like a terrible person.
what’s worse is when they have the baby and I’m still not pregnant..
Or get pregnant a flipping second time. That’s 100% when my happiness evaporates.Me too. I feel like a terrible person.
what’s worse is when they have the baby and I’m still not pregnant..
I really don’t know what to do about my COVID vaccine!
For context, I’m very pro vaccine, and it never even entered my head that I wouldn’t get it, and was annoyed that I was the last one at work to be offered it because of my age.
After my first one, my next period was normal, but the one after was late, heavier, and ridiculously painful. I’m currently on CD29 and no sign of my period. I normally spot for a day or two before it starts but nothing. I’ve tested and BFN.
I deliberately scheduled my second vaccine for when I’d be on my period as I didn’t want to have it in the TWW in case I was pregnant, but my appointment is tomorrow, and still no period!
I really don’t want to have it because I’m scared it’ll mess up my periods again and I just want to be able to get pregnant. But I also feel like I have to have it because of work/potential vaccine passports.
For context, I’m very pro vaccine, and it never even entered my head that I wouldn’t get it, and was annoyed that I was the last one at work to be offered it because of my age.
After my first one, my next period was normal, but the one after was late, heavier, and ridiculously painful. I’m currently on CD29 and no sign of my period. I normally spot for a day or two before it starts but nothing. I’ve tested and BFN.
I deliberately scheduled my second vaccine for when I’d be on my period as I didn’t want to have it in the TWW in case I was pregnant, but my appointment is tomorrow, and still no period!
I really don’t want to have it because I’m scared it’ll mess up my periods again and I just want to be able to get pregnant. But I also feel like I have to have it because of work/potential vaccine passports.
the vaccine is a hard one to navigate timing wise for anyone TTC. I still don’t have mine as I was convinced last month was my month so I put it off but I’d much rather have it before being pregnant than taking it while pregnant if I were to be so lucky to even conceive.
currently in bed with a stomach bug & I even tested praying it was symptoms of pregnancy even tho I haven’t had my peak yet. I’m a lunatic
I caved this morning and tested.. BFN 
I know they say you’re not out until AF but I just feel really deflated, I was convinced I would see a BFP this morning.
I’m now 13DPO, AF is due any day now.
I know they say you’re not out until AF but I just feel really deflated, I was convinced I would see a BFP this morning.I’m now 13DPO, AF is due any day now.
I'm in the same predicament. I've not had any doses yet because I don't want to mess with my cycle. That's the only reason and it's my choice. I'll happily have it in pregnancy. I feel like I'm losing the choice though if we need vaccine passes to be able to do stuff and I'm dreading having to isolate and telling work I'm not doubled vaccinated. It's a hard one.
I’m double vaxxed and have been for a while now, it did mess with them a bit but seems back on track now 
Personally I would be more wary taking it whilst pregnant (my own anxiety, nothing medical.) and I would definitely want to be vaccinated before having the baby.
Personally I would be more wary taking it whilst pregnant (my own anxiety, nothing medical.) and I would definitely want to be vaccinated before having the baby.
It’s so tough isn’t it? I’ve tested negative again today and I think I’m spotting slightly so I’m going to go for it. I’ve got a couple of things booked like theatre visits and concerts and don’t want to have to miss out. I also think that my work would ‘advise’ me to be double jabbed if they found out that I wasn’t because they wouldn’t want me to isolate.
I had my second dose yesterday, and I'm due to ovulate in the next week.
I'm not against having it during pregnancy personally, but my husband has terrible health anxiety and I know it would worry him so much if I did, so I decided to just get it done. If I don't get pregnant this month I'll blame that
I'm not against having it during pregnancy personally, but my husband has terrible health anxiety and I know it would worry him so much if I did, so I decided to just get it done. If I don't get pregnant this month I'll blame that
I had the Janssen vaccine, I've since been to 2 events which required my Coronacheck QR code and it has been no problem. Only 1 shot, slightly longer cycle but that could have been coincidence 
if you aren't sure, that might be an alternative? Please look at info online, or ask your doctor for advice. I'm not medical myself and I believe that pregnant women (TTC too?) are advised to have the Pfizer shots, this was my personal choice to go against advice that I made for myself. I must be honest and admit that hearing some of you had messed up cycles pushed me towards the Janssen, that and I don't like needles 
The nice lady didn't even hurt me I believe this will be available in the UK later this year, but I also hear you're struggling with MIA European lorry drivers! I didn't want the vaccine, particularly, but also was scared by the stories of women dying or ending up in ICU & having to deliver early etc.
if you aren't sure, that might be an alternative? Please look at info online, or ask your doctor for advice. I'm not medical myself and I believe that pregnant women (TTC too?) are advised to have the Pfizer shots, this was my personal choice to go against advice that I made for myself. I must be honest and admit that hearing some of you had messed up cycles pushed me towards the Janssen, that and I don't like needles The nice lady didn't even hurt me I believe this will be available in the UK later this year, but I also hear you're struggling with MIA European lorry drivers! I didn't want the vaccine, particularly, but also was scared by the stories of women dying or ending up in ICU & having to deliver early etc.Hi all,
This is my first month of trying after my periods taking months to regulate after years of birth control, finally had a normal 28day cycle prior to this period. I'm on CD5 and have never tested for ovulation before but I think I'm going to this month just to be 100% that I'm actually ovulating.
Any tips would be welcome.
This is my first month of trying after my periods taking months to regulate after years of birth control, finally had a normal 28day cycle prior to this period. I'm on CD5 and have never tested for ovulation before but I think I'm going to this month just to be 100% that I'm actually ovulating.
Any tips would be welcome.
I am now 9 / 10 days late and no sign of AF. Last did a test on Wednesday but was BFN. Contemplating doing another one but almost too scared to do one
My only advice would be to enjoy baby making for a while & don’t get too bogged down in the details or schedules. Best of luck to you
Good luck for your first month! I would just say try to relax, enjoy it and keep yourself as busy as possible for the two week wait.
Is anyone else in the TWW? I’m 4dpo and I forgot how much this drags.
Me @Motherofpugs! I didn't bother tracking ovulation this month but my period is due in a week! I don't know why but I feel so nervous this time! This is month 10.
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