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Hi all,

Sorry to hear that some of you struggled on fathers day ♥

I'm struggling with the fact I've never seen any hint of a bfp. Like nothing.
A good friend has one child, and trying for another and talks to me like we are the same. I feel so bad for her as she's trying too but at the same time I right now feel so badly that I just want one baby 😢 I feel so awful for feeling this way, I know it's awful but she's a mum and I just want to be someone's mum. I'm sorry to anyone reading who is trying and struggling who already has kids. I just can't help but be envious when someone already does have children and I can't even get two lines in any way. I know I'm being selfish.
The thought of my period not coming and seeing two lines doesn't even feel possible.
just want you to know that you aren’t alone in those thoughts, I have them too. Sending you lots of love x
 
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Had a doctors appointment this morning, booked in for a final blood test this afternoon and once the results are back they’re referring me to fertility. I’m so glad something is finally happening and can get the ball rolling 🤞🏼
 
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I've just left the EPU, had a blood test to see my levels and have to go back in 48 hours for another to compare it. So in limbo really. They did an internal scan but couldn't see anything which was unlikely anyway given its so early. So will have to wait and see. 🤞
 
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Well after having no AF since January 5th I think I’m finally coming on… I genuinely feel like celebrating 🤣
Now to impulse buy 100s of opk strips and dig the tampons out the bathroom cupboard 🤞🏼😂
 
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Hi everyone! So I’m about 9-10dpo! Had some one step tests left over so decided to test! I know super early!! Very faint line with pinky tinge and then dipped one in water and of course a line! Don’t even know why I bother with one step tests as I’ve had this before anyways I thrown the rest of the spare tests out and now have no tests!! I can’t deal with the constant second guessing and line squinting each month so have decided to stop torturing myself and wait!! My longest AF since MC has been 39days so going to try and hold off until 39days to test if no AF! X
 
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Had a random phone call from the doctors surgery this evening before they closed. The doctor has requested an appointment for Monday morning to do with “gynaecology results” but I wasn’t expecting any more results. Feeling a bit on edge about it as the receptionist really didn’t have any information only that the doctor had asked her to schedule the appointment.

I feel like I use this thread as a diary sometimes rather than asking an actual question so I’m sorry if that bugs anybody. Feel free to angry react to this is you think I should shut up until I have a question 😬
 
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Soooooo I said I wasn't going to track ovulation as it's not something I've ever done, but Dr has recommended I do since I'm not waiting for AF between the chemical and trying again.

Apparently it can mess up your cycle and when you ovulate.😬 I'm usually pretty regular, cycle days 28/29 and usually feel what I think is ovulation around day 16ish.

I've bought the clearblue ones and [email protected] one says first urine and the other says from 10am-8pm?! So confusing. 🙄
 
Soooooo I said I wasn't going to track ovulation as it's not something I've ever done, but Dr has recommended I do since I'm not waiting for AF between the chemical and trying again.

Apparently it can mess up your cycle and when you ovulate.😬 I'm usually pretty regular, cycle days 28/29 and usually feel what I think is ovulation around day 16ish.

I've bought the clearblue ones and [email protected] one says first urine and the other says from 10am-8pm?! So confusing. 🙄
I use the clearblue in the morning then if I can I’ll do a cheapy OPK in the evening. If it looks like that is getting dark (compared with the previous day) then I’ll retest in the evening with clearblue to make sure I don’t miss the peak on it, but I only use both because testing twice a day on CB would be so pricey and I have a relatively short surge and don’t want to miss it.

You don’t need both, but if it’s your first cycle tracking it might be worth it just in case you also have quite a short surge. Good luck 😊
 
Had my second scan today and no sign of ovulation. The nurse was pretty disappointed too. So now we are wondering whether I have been ovulating. Feel so down about it all, it seems to be one thing after the other. I just feel like it’s not meant to be so why even bother anymore.
 
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Had my second scan today and no sign of ovulation. The nurse was pretty disappointed too. So now we are wondering whether I have been ovulating. Feel so down about it all, it seems to be one thing after the other. I just feel like it’s not meant to be so why even bother anymore.
Sorry to hear that you’re feeling so down. I don’t know your history but there’s so much they can do and things that could help you ovulate, don’t give up hope 💕 xx
 
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I’ve ovulated which is great…..however I’ve had terrible Lurgy all week and no amount of throwing myself at my husband has persuaded him to come anywhere near me! Can’t imagine why he’s not found me attractive with my husky bunged up voice and streaming nose! Think this month is a write off 🤦🏻‍♀️😂
 
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Ugh I think I’ve started properly spotting and cramping which means AF on the way tomorrow probs 🥺 I’m only 10dpo so it’s earlier than last month. I really thought I was chilled this month and wouldn’t feel so sad but it’s hit me harder than I expected.

Onto cycle number 3 🤞🏻
 
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