There was a vlog last year where she was crying over his behaviour at school as she was getting pulled by the teachers and head most days so no way is he "not that bad" she just doesn't want to admit he needs help and they need support, she needs to put him first and listen to what they say, she needs to put into practice what they suggest, she needs to jump through every hoop to get a diagnosis/treatment/support its the way it works, the system and road to diagnosis can and does suck but no one is above it, you just have to grit your teeth, eat some humble pie and do it for the good of your child, she must be insufferable to deal with!
Trim with Tan #3 Farrrnnn darnnnning and trackies but I still prefer tinned tatties (ma loofs)
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Agree 100% if our children can't count on us to get them through who can they count on ? she needs to accept the help for the good of her son
Red lips 77 exercises daily and has lost a ton of weight! Also study to be an actual nutritionist not a groupon one
Most of us would just put away the cameras/phones. Ditch YT, take away the games consoles and concentrate solely on our children surely and work in co-operation with the people trying to help their family or is that too simplistic a view ?
too simplistic for Tan but not the rest of us ma loof
she lives in her own world where she is always right, stuff anyone else and don't dare criticise her because she is the expert on larrrrf and always knows best.......pfffffttt
So after referring herself for this and rambling on the other day about it being okay to ask for help and admit when you need it, she's now established they already have the support in place, from where? She's done nothing but slag off every professional offering to help her saying their wrong or useless so what exactly is it that she wants? The key worker is a complete waste of time now aparantly.. it's Corby I feel really sorry for, she can't face facts and puts her huge ego before her son constantly and it's down right disgusting. He clearly needs the help and she's pushing everyone away that offers to help him because she doesn't like not being in control and she always has to be right. I would never have before say she was an awful mum and thought her kids always looked happy but now my opinion of her is at its lowest, absolutely shameful
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Yes Debbie has done amazing with a mixture of both. Tan just likes to try find any excuse as to why she's had a gain this week. Nothing to do with all the tit she's shoveled in this week!
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OhMyGod no. I may be northern but I'm Yorkshire. Burnley is the other side
Well I just watched one of her old cooking vlogs where Corby used to help out .She was a lot calmer and kept her appearance in check compared to how we see her now!mind you she was a lot slimmer then! maybe she's got so caught up in herself with the weight gain etc that it's getting projected to everyone around her she seems really bitter her whole demeanor has completely changed all the negativity must be having an impact on the boys.That's probably why Chris stays out of the way he doesn't know what kind of mood he coming home to.
Probably why he hammers the overtime
If you're gaining weight then stop going to the gym!! 
Oh and she tried a behaviour chart two year agor!!! Thank goodness she's very flexible wi work being the professional she is!! She's just totally self absorbed, that video was horrible 
Oh and she tried a behaviour chart two year agor!!! Thank goodness she's very flexible wi work being the professional she is!! She's just totally self absorbed, that video was horrible 
Just came here to say I taught 3 spin classes last week and lost 8.5lbs.
She just loves the drama and attention this is giving her. Her sons health seems to come second as far as I can see. If that was me I would listen to everything the professionals asked me to do to see my child was getting all the help he needs so my child knew he means more to me than the camera in my hand. I would be well away from any social media and focusing all my attention on him no matter how hard hearing where I was going wrong. But tan is never wrong. So tan will shun any help. And Corby will continue playing up for attention. If he had adhd no amount of bribing would control him. That shows he can control himself when he wants to.
Don’t really comment on the bint from Burnley ma loves but she,s blocked my comments on you tube. She did that god damn awful video about The Secret so I just said what a load of tosh it was and that if she took it literally she would end up a narcissist who can’t take criticism like the porker Gammons and she blocked me, so I’ve just disliked shitloads of her videos out of bleeping spite, hope them frigging birds keep her awake twattering away!
a lot of the time in schools the children are out of control because they crave attention and parents are constantly on their phones, not saying everyone, but a certain sector, and the only way these kiddies get any attention is when they play up. What’s a child to do? Exactly, play up. Come on tan, accept some blame, those poor kids crave attention
Had to turn the vlog off shes cancelled the 12 weeks of help as does not feel she needs it.......... and apparently corby managing his anger himself im actually done
Oh god, she’s on another level! Haven’t watched it yet dunno if I can be arsed, I’ll want to punch the iPadHad to turn the vlog off shes cancelled the 12 weeks of help as does not feel she needs it.......... and apparently corby managing his anger himself im actually done
...and its a great way for him to get money! He doesn't want a sticker for having a good day, no he demands £1 and he gets it.
If he's good every other school day, he can 'earn'£3!! Sounds like a plan!
she's unbelievable! so she;s cancelled the 12 week sessions because "I just want a referral" does she think you can just click your fingers and get one? she's cluelss, thats what the 12 week course is for....so at the end of it the key worker can decide if they need a referral or help in other areas, she is so pig headed its unreal. I have an autistic son and we had a very long diagnosis journey, we had to go through lots of assessments that I knew were not the right direction for us but I smiled sweetly, answered the questions and got on with it because I knew it was a process and you have to stick with it to get where your child needs to be. She thinks she can just click her fingers and get what she wants. She's such an irritant at the moment.....needs a sponsorship with canesten ma loves
I remember when we went through it all too @lexiloo - I sat there and honestly answered every personal and impersonal question there was. Every typos question and every question that made me feel uncomfortable. Because it was for my daughter. They looked at her bedroom, at dynamics in the house and 18 months later we were done and dusted (to a degree 
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To put your needs/fears and wants in front of a child’s is outrageous. TBF, my worker was amazing and told me so many parents throw out the ‘not naughty/bad/tit parent, got ADHD/ADD/AUTISM’ so they have to do long extensive meetings. So they know who and what they are doing. She’s bloody deluded to think she’ll get help now.
) To put your needs/fears and wants in front of a child’s is outrageous. TBF, my worker was amazing and told me so many parents throw out the ‘not naughty/bad/tit parent, got ADHD/ADD/AUTISM’ so they have to do long extensive meetings. So they know who and what they are doing. She’s bloody deluded to think she’ll get help now.
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