Thats how you know this has nothing to do with the kids. Her hyper fixation on "with his gf" who cares who hes with. And also hes there working. Which should make you happy since you want $$$ from him. What she cant get past is that he moved on. Shes the type that cant be happy for anyone not even a friend if shes not "happier" than them. She wants everything always and for no one else to have anything. She a child. I just feel for those kids man to have such checked out parents