Towers_weightjourney #2 His fraudulent botched surgery is done, JT is now on the run

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SausageSam said:
They have failed as parents for letting him get to the size he was living under there roof
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Sorry but I strongly disagree. My parents did everything they could do that was within their power to stop me going down that road. At 9 years old I was in hospital for 3 weeks for investigation where the doctors finally concluded that I had an extremely low metabolism. They kept cutting down my food while I was in there to see just how little I would have to eat to lose weight at a normal rate. They got me virtually down to starvation level before it started to move and the doctors told my parents that it was both dangerous and unsustainable to even consider doing it long term. My parents never stopped trying to help me. I had 4 brothers and sisters we were all fed the same diet yet I was the only overweight one. It makes me angry when people blame the parents without knowing the history behind the situation. It broke my parents hearts that I could not beat my problem and even today my 80 year old mother says if she could have one wish it would be that I was free of my prison. I have never given up trying I will never give up trying to at least keep off what I can to stop me getting back to my heaviest.

My parents didn't fail me and I haven't failed myself but nobody will ever understand this situation unless they are/were there.

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Sorry but I strongly disagree. My parents did everything they could do that was within their power to stop me going down that road. At 9 years old I was in hospital for 3 weeks for investigation where the doctors finally concluded that I had an extremely low metabolism. They kept cutting down my food while I was in there to see just how little I would have to eat to lose weight at a normal rate. They got me virtually down to starvation level before it started to move and the doctors told my parents that it was both dangerous and unsustainable to even consider doing it long term. My parents never stopped trying to help me. I had 4 brothers and sisters we were all fed the same diet yet I was the only overweight one. It makes me angry when people blame the parents without knowing the history behind the situation. It broke my parents hearts that I could not beat my problem and even today my 80 year old mother says if she could have one wish it would be that I was free of my prison. I have never given up trying I will never give up trying to at least keep off what I can to stop me getting back to my heaviest.

My parents didn't fail me and I haven't failed myself but nobody will ever understand this situation unless they are/were there.

Every book has a different story to tell
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Taking one very extreme case - yours, and applying it to this low life isn’t going to cut it. He doesn’t have a metabolism problem as he was able to lose the weight. He was morbidly obese from over eating and under moving all whilst living under his parents roof
 
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SausageSam said:
Taking one very extreme case - yours, and applying it to this low life isn’t going to cut it. He doesn’t have a metabolism problem as he was able to lose the weight. He was morbidly obese from over eating and under moving all whilst living under his parents roof
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I don't know how or why he became fat nor at what age so on that basis alone I'm not going to condemn his parents by pretending that I do know
 
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Sorry but I strongly disagree. My parents did everything they could do that was within their power to stop me going down that road. At 9 years old I was in hospital for 3 weeks for investigation where the doctors finally concluded that I had an extremely low metabolism. They kept cutting down my food while I was in there to see just how little I would have to eat to lose weight at a normal rate. They got me virtually down to starvation level before it started to move and the doctors told my parents that it was both dangerous and unsustainable to even consider doing it long term. My parents never stopped trying to help me. I had 4 brothers and sisters we were all fed the same diet yet I was the only overweight one. It makes me angry when people blame the parents without knowing the history behind the situation. It broke my parents hearts that I could not beat my problem and even today my 80 year old mother says if she could have one wish it would be that I was free of my prison. I have never given up trying I will never give up trying to at least keep off what I can to stop me getting back to my heaviest.

My parents didn't fail me and I haven't failed myself but nobody will ever understand this situation unless they are/were there.

Every book has a different story to tell
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I'm really sorry to hear this. It sounds very sad for everyone involved.

I do understand that it's not all clear cut, but I stand by my thoughts that his parents/family/mates should not be supporting his abhorrent behaviour. It's gone too far.
 
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AllTheHunsBeHunning said:
I'm really sorry to hear this. It sounds very sad for everyone involved.

I do understand that it's not all clear cut, but I stand by my thoughts that his parents/family/mates should not be supporting his abhorrent behaviour. It's gone too far.
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Oh make no mistake it is what he is now that is off interest to me and no there are no excuses. Yes his parents do have to come under scrutiny for how he has turned out as a person and for continuing to harbour him knowing what he has done and you do have to question the morals and integrity or lack of them that he was bought up with. The same can be said for the friends that are standing by him, if they are that stupid that they won't see many people will tar them with the same brush then that's their fault.

This isn't about how or who made him fat it is about the person. I can't even bring myself to call him a man.
 
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Oh make no mistake it is what he is now that is off interest to me and no there are no excuses. Yes his parents do have to come under scrutiny for how he has turned out as a person and for continuing to harbour him knowing what he has done and you do have to question the morals and integrity or lack of them that he was bought up with. The same can be said for the friends that are standing by him, if they are that stupid that they won't see many people will tar them with the same brush then that's their fault.

This isn't about how or who made him fat it is about the person. I can't even bring myself to call him a man.
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Yes exactly. At the minute, I am treating all of them guilty by association.
 
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Sunshinestate12 said:
His parents need seeking out to obtain their views on their darling son’s behaviour!
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His Mum and brother are both on Facebook not sure about insta so they are more than aware of the furore surrounding Faulty. My parents would never ever have forgiven me for bringing such shame to their door. I'm actually quite surprised that is mother is possibly condoning his behaviour. From what I've read she's a very hard working lady that sometimes works up to 60 hours a week as some sort of specialist care/support worker.
 
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Absolutely NO shame. Sky diving costs a fortune for ya normal folk, and he’s taken money off people for some Frankenstein as duck surgery to fix his droopy tits and saggy gut from SELF INFLICTED over eating. I can’t
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Costs about £150 at the paragliding places where he is in Turkey. I cannot believe go fund me think it's ok
 
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What exactly could go wrong if he keeps putting weight on? Is it possible his scar could split? Internal damage?
While the skin may look healed I doubt everything inside has fully healed by now. 🤔
 
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Mrs_emily said:
What exactly could go wrong if he keeps putting weight on? Is it possible his scar could split? Internal damage?
While the skin may look healed I doubt everything inside has fully healed by now. 🤔
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Whatever could happen wouldn't in my opinion be anywhere near enough to make him pay for what he's done.
 
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Sunshinestate12 said:
Don’t forget his brother-I’m not sure if people have bombarded him with questions about Faulty as yet!
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It always feels wrong to me to hound family members for something like this. One person asking is one thing but every tom, dick and harry pestering is another. His brother has always seemed a fairly normal bloke from what I have seen
 
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Sorry but I strongly disagree. My parents did everything they could do that was within their power to stop me going down that road. At 9 years old I was in hospital for 3 weeks for investigation where the doctors finally concluded that I had an extremely low metabolism. They kept cutting down my food while I was in there to see just how little I would have to eat to lose weight at a normal rate. They got me virtually down to starvation level before it started to move and the doctors told my parents that it was both dangerous and unsustainable to even consider doing it long term. My parents never stopped trying to help me. I had 4 brothers and sisters we were all fed the same diet yet I was the only overweight one. It makes me angry when people blame the parents without knowing the history behind the situation. It broke my parents hearts that I could not beat my problem and even today my 80 year old mother says if she could have one wish it would be that I was free of my prison. I have never given up trying I will never give up trying to at least keep off what I can to stop me getting back to my heaviest.

My parents didn't fail me and I haven't failed myself but nobody will ever understand this situation unless they are/were there.

Every book has a different story to tell
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Sorry to hear of your struggle and I completely understand where you are coming from.

I’m one of 3 sisters (I’m the middle) and have always had a distorted body image and struggled with binge eating and thinking I was fat and ugly . My mum and dad are both a healthy weight and have been all their lives. Both are fit and active in their 70s and 80s respectively .

We were all fed the same,healthy home cooked meals and a wee treat. I was a child of the 80’s so takeaways and McDonalds wasn’t a thing,we would have a chippy if we went on a day out but that was a couple of times a year.

I used to eat sugar cubes,drinking chocolate out of the tub and I can remember stealing money out of my mums purse and buying sweets :oops:

It was only as an adult that I spoke to our family doctor about my body image and constant binge/restrict cycle and she said did I ever consider I was a healthy weight and my sisters were very thin. I looked at old photos and my mind was blown.

Anyway,not to threadjack but my mum and dad are blameless. It’s my wonky brain that’s the problem
 
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