Big fan of baby wearing here BUT he is 4.5 months old, he does not need to be attached to her permanently and I'm sorry to say love but he is no longer a newborn so you are clutching at straws / clinging on for desperation using him for "newborn" content nowAnd have the baby glued to her constantly nothing against those who use slings whilst doing housework etc as I know many do, but she's literally sat on the sofa bouncing him on her manically, then slagging off her husband for taking him for 10 minutes because the baby is now crying I'm going to sound like my mum, but she's made a rod for her back there