I cannot imagine going on TikTok when your child has just arrived home from a weekend away. I would be thinking pamper night where we would have a bath get into comfies, some nice food a fun movie with popcorn then when the kid is in bed a tidy around and get things ready for the morning aka uniform/school bag and then maybe half an hour on live to wind down and off to bed to be up bright n early to do the school run.
Well it’s bank holiday so no school run but you can bet your life that tonight she’ll be doing the same, there’ll be no organisation for her daughter. I take pride in getting everything right for mine on a Sunday.They get fresh bedding, clean tidy bedrooms, bubble baths with their favourite bath Bombs, we do school reading, any homework we haven’t got done over the weekend and a nice film.
Once the kids are tucked up safely in their clean beds which is about 8pm-8.30 I then still have a full tidy round the house.
I also iron uniforms etc if I haven’t had the time that day if we have been out. Get their stuff laid out and ready for the next morning ensure p.e kits and lunches are packed.
This can take me to 10pm depending how much there is to do, at this point I run my own bubble bath, do my skin care etc and generally see this as my time to do what I want to do which is usually just get in bed with a film cos I’m shattered.
Aimee is so wrapped up in her time and what she wants to do, but as a mum I get enjoyment from taking care of my kids and making sure everything is right for them. She’s just selfish.
She gets every second weekend off with harper and she gets help from her mum and dad, there’s people who get no help whatsoever, and they still manage to keep their kids happier and better looked after than Harper.
Also I don’t want that post to come across like I’m perfect because I’m not there’s plenty of times it hasn’t gone smoothly or I have been too tired to remember certain things, but with Aimee it’s a consistent choice to put herself before Harper it’s not out of genuine tiredness or struggle she’s just lazy and selfish in my opinion.