The whole happy people don’t hate is such a load of shit. I’m extremely happy, I have two beautiful daughters, one is two and one is 10 weeks old, with the most amazing fiance, a beautiful home which I don’t just ‘reset’ on a Sunday btw. But do I see her terrible parenting, disgusting house, nasty attitude and everything else yes I do. But that’s not because I’m unhappy, it’s because I’m a normal adult who can see right from wrong. I wouldn’t dream of letting my house look like that, even 2 days after we had the newborn home I was cleaning because I couldn’t bear to sit in an untidy home.