Firstly that flakey scalp is
Secondly, I’ll eat my hat if she actually goes alone with H. I can see her mum ‘deciding to come along’ as she’d like a holiday too. You’re an adult Aimee. It’s no different to parenting at home, only you’ll have better weather. Of course if you go solo then you’ll have no babysitter so you won’t be able to wait in bed for your mum to bring you coffee in the morning and it will be your responsibility to watch H in the pool 100% of the time. Which will probably be a problem for you given you like to shirk parental responsibilities so much.
What difference does it make with regards to the distance from home? Once you’re on the plane you’re on the plane! Why would you go where the weather for the sake of a few extra hours in the air.
Let’s see what happens shall we.