So russ is going to have breakfast to celebrate his birthday with the people (according to Jess) that "WE love most" ........placing my bet and gonna call it now.........that breakfast won't include Noah or Marley (I hope I am wrong). Everything is a competition in Jess' eyes even something as universal and beautiful as loving someone. The post is a basic 'Nah nah nah-nah nah we love Russ the most', what about his parents, his biological kids, his siblings, his lifelong friends who've been around and in Russ'es life much longer than Jess. Show your love for Russ Jess by all means but you don't have the monopoly on it, you are really coming across like you need to feel you have the controlling interest rather than experiencing and relishing the joy of a loving relationship itself.