Absolutely laughable.
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I think that when you have a situation playing out in front of you you really need to put your family first and not document it all in pretty much real time.
There are so many of these intagrammers sharing every detail of their family life and denying their children their right to privacy. It's disgusting.
There are so many of these intagrammers sharing every detail of their family life and denying their children their right to privacy. It's disgusting.
Anyone else getting deja vu over H’s fabulous day at his new placement? It’s all sunshine and rainbows right now, but if/when it all goes tits up, she’ll be sneering on Stories about how she was misled, she was promised that the staff were experienced and could handle Hugo, he’s been failed terribly yet again…
Yeah. She needs to keep it private to give him the chance to succeed or otherwise not in the public eye!
I also think ptwm is going to try and copy what Jess has done with H with her own daughter T. Just keep it private. You’re selling your kids privacy and souls to a bunch of strangers.
Totally. And ptwm is a damn sight worse than Jess so it will be no doubt incredibly intrusive into that poor girl's privacy.
Yep she used some terminology the other day that made me think she’s been chatting to Jess
Well that didn't take long......
I have a typical blends in the background at school, hard working, but mainly ignored child because he's no trouble and just cracks on. He frequently has lessons disrupted due to the same kids kicking off (not SEN).
Jess really needs to think of the other children who are not having their learning needs met because her little darling is once again misbehaving. H is not the only child in the school! I bet they are sick to the back teeth of it all.
I have a typical blends in the background at school, hard working, but mainly ignored child because he's no trouble and just cracks on. He frequently has lessons disrupted due to the same kids kicking off (not SEN).
Jess really needs to think of the other children who are not having their learning needs met because her little darling is once again misbehaving. H is not the only child in the school! I bet they are sick to the back teeth of it all.
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Jess I'm sure you have a peek at this once in a while. You must understand that isolation is what other kids receive, and what it would look like if he didn't receive it? Regardless of reason behind behaviour the school cant be seen to be unfair. I don't disagree that isolation is crap, but how do they deal with Hugo in a classroom of children who do mainly want to crack on? If they leave him in there 30 kids lose, not 1.
For that reason I really think she should consider a non mainstream school. Yes, he wants to be with his mates, but there has to be a balance. It can't literally be moulded around her and H and everyone else suffers.
Again, I do think the education system isn't great for one size fits all etc but this is real life and those other children will suffer detrimentally at his expense, is that fair either?
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For that reason I really think she should consider a non mainstream school. Yes, he wants to be with his mates, but there has to be a balance. It can't literally be moulded around her and H and everyone else suffers.
Again, I do think the education system isn't great for one size fits all etc but this is real life and those other children will suffer detrimentally at his expense, is that fair either?
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And all the I love yous on her posts. You don't love her though, do you Racheal? You barely know her... if I were Jess I'd be mortified to be associated with her. Child similarities aside, R is a giant chav who is stealthily abusive to her family. Wake up Jess!
I agree with you. I've stated before that I am a teacher. Sometimes the needs of the many have to come before the one- if H is kicking off and disruptive then the school have to follow the behaviour policy. He is continuously disrupting the learning of others which isn't fair on them. Jess is doing herself no favours here slagging the school off and I did almost message her saying that. She needs compassion for H's teachers and other classmates. If the school setting isn't right then no matter how much he wants to go for the social side of things she needs to look elsewhere ie homeschooling using the tutor she was so gushing over in her previous ad
Ahh but that would mean she had to spend her own money on it and if its not a beige or a basket..she's not interested.I agree with you. I've stated before that I am a teacher. Sometimes the needs of the many have to come before the one- if H is kicking off and disruptive then the school have to follow the behaviour policy. He is continuously disrupting the learning of others which isn't fair on them. Jess is doing herself no favours here slagging the school off and I did almost message her saying that. She needs compassion for H's teachers and other classmates. If the school setting isn't right then no matter how much he wants to go for the social side of things she needs to look elsewhere ie homeschooling using the tutor she was so gushing over in her previous ad
Ironically she mentions the system being run ragged, well im assuming that's how h's teachers feel at the end of each day with him.
She needs to get tough with him, and support the schools punishment. What does she want them to do, take him off for 121 counselling and colouring in ffs. Its a school.. The children don't tow the line, they get put into isolation. Its the norm Jess!!
As everyone else has said, maybe it's time for you to find him a more appropriate setting if this one doesn't work for you.
She's slagging the schools approach but maybe if when he came home she said no xbox no seeing your mates help out around the house etc...then he might not end up in isolation.
I am NOT saying punish children for behaviours they can't control but children with SEN can also act out and misbehave. I have one! As a parent it's knowing the difference and putting consequences in place.
I am NOT saying punish children for behaviours they can't control but children with SEN can also act out and misbehave. I have one! As a parent it's knowing the difference and putting consequences in place.
The problem is he has no consequences. When he isnt at school he's allowed to be on his xbox 24/7- what does she expect?
Just remembered what it was - it was when PTWM said T’s anxiety was presenting differently she’s never used such terms before. Bloody hell Jess needs to look at this differently - he’s been isolated 989302 times then why haven’t you as his mum informed him that this is completely unacceptable? He has chance after chance so he’s not one bit inclined to learn or grow is he.
How can he be ‘rehabilitated’ if it is due to his diagnosis? Doesn’t add up
I really feel for the school. It must be impossible trying to balance the needs of all the other students against parents like her - surely she must accept that a diagnosis of xyz is not a free pass for appalling behaviour. If he can’t cope with attending a handful of lessons and behaving for that short amount of time then he needs to be in a specialist school, it’s completely unfair on the staff and the other pupils.
She expects private school treatment in the state school system. She must have told the school her job at some point and I guarantee they look at her Insta. I bet they are furious when they see how she portrays them and are counting the days down until they can get rid of H.
I'm a bit confused by her latest grid post!!
It sounds like she's really not coping at all! and is she really that naive that she thought everything with H would be great??
Like... Surely she's used to the madness/business of the boys being at school and different clubs/football?? Don't most parents plan for this thing?
Yet, she has one "bad" day and is suddenly overwhelmed and crying in M&S??
I wonder how long it'll be until everything is rosy again...in time for the weekend carboots I reckon!
It sounds like she's really not coping at all! and is she really that naive that she thought everything with H would be great??
Like... Surely she's used to the madness/business of the boys being at school and different clubs/football?? Don't most parents plan for this thing?
Yet, she has one "bad" day and is suddenly overwhelmed and crying in M&S??
I wonder how long it'll be until everything is rosy again...in time for the weekend carboots I reckon!
"A boy broken by the system". Give me bleeping STRENGTH.
She really has no clue does she.. Its pain in the arse parents like her who make it harder to get help for kids with autism etc.
She has no clue what a child broken by the school system really looks like. She’s in such a privileged bubble
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