Professionals do gaslight parents, parents do have to fight for services, professionals do lie on assessments. That is why she is trying to pull this one, because she knows how hard other send families have it, much harder than what shes ever experienced because everything has been handed to her on a plate so far because of the fear of publicity. Claiming shes being gaslighted and made to feel like a liar, takes it away from those parents who really do have that tit. It's like women who cry rape when they havent been raped - it damages the send community once more. There is a difference between being gaslighted into thinking you're a liar
compared to being an actual liar and reading things that you dont want to hear.
Look at her calendar highlights, on november shes written in the achievement section he is using the toilet and only using one nappy all day on somedays. Then mid December shes doing ads for Pampers wheres shes written the progress is immense and that hes going more times than not going. She then contradicts herself again saying the last couple of weeks he hasnt been interested, but her ad was a couple of weeks ago where she was raving about his immense progress. Is she stupid, I need someone to explain to me how this girl got a degree because I'm struggling to figure that tit out.
Now think about what shes moaning about tonight. Shes said they've written "...developmentally jaxon is making progress towards toilet training and remains within the range of skills expected for his age group" followed by "this is gaslighting".
Firstly, they havent wrote he is toilet training, they have said he is making progress towards toilet training. Even though she wrote he was using the toilet in november, she must have been doing it before that if he had progressed enough to only wear one nappy a day, but still, they have only said he making progress towards toilet training, not that hes actually toilet training.
Secondly, i know a social worker who follows her and she messaged me about this, (shes also reported concerns btw), She said statistically parents are toilet training kids later than what they used to, some children are starting school wearing nappies, it's now normal for children to begin toilet training between 18 months and 3 years and to be fully trained including nights between 5 and 6, so in the eyes of professionals he is within the range of skills expected for his age.
Thirdly, they could claim she is gaslighting them by twisting their words to suit her own narrative. Making progress towards doing something is different to saying they're doing it and doing it successfully.
400 blood tests since birth. Liar. Like someone else has said, it's one blood test with numerous vials filled. Like we all have done.
She pushed for a port claiming it would reduce his distress yet shes still saying he has to be held down by 2 adults whilst a 3rd accesses his port? How come she was telling us very recently she has to put his arm under her arm to take his blood, even though he has a port now, but never mentioned there was 3 people doing it, she said one other. If she wants people to take into account the psychological distress Jaxon suffers, why was she wearing her uniform that he associates with hospitals, around him? Didnt she take his psychological distress into account? Nope she just expects others to
She said she has to rewatch footage of life threatening vomits? How many parents have footage of life threatening situations unless it's the monitor recordings but I bet shes got loads shes filmed herself. She will be like "oh this is a life threatening vomit, hes choking, wheres my 2 iPhones so I can record him to evidence that I need a nanny/keira"
Who's that on her floor? Is she stupid. She has keiras tonight, shes already mentioned they're agreeing with her version, now shes filmed someone on the floor with the words teamwork whilst showing shes gathering evidence. Is she stupid and that selfish? If the keira is lying on her floor going through things to help Kaytee build evidence for her CHC appeal she may as well kiss her job good bye. She shouldn't be getting involved to that extent. Shouldn't she be caring for Jaxon? According to Kaytee, when it suits her, he needs watching 24/7 or it could be fatal, if the keira has time to lie on her floor Jaxon doesnt need CHC keiras!! Does she want keiras so she can get them to do her admin? To help her build evidence for appeals or to actually care for her child? What a absolute dick. Whilst shes building evidence thinking shes got this, they're watching her stories and building their own. Good home goal Kaytee! You've just shown them the keiras are there to help you and not Jaxon. Might as well film the keira lying on your floor having a nap. What a twit!!
Oh and the wallpaper pasting brush next to them, please tell me shes not making her do decorating too! I know it's a easy shift and they probably want something to do, but they're not there to do your DIY and to make your home insta ready. For duck sakes. It just gets worse.
Ooops I mean her son. Because we all know she uses medical terms when she discusses him. After all he is her only real nursing project.
