The one thing that's made my blood boil reading her recent stories... Someone told her that because of kaytee they are more mindful using the word "normal".
Hang on. Kaytee is CONSTANTLY referring to other kids as normal implying her own son isn't normal. Which is a massive no no for me. There is no such thing as normal. And when you use that word to say your own son isn't normal because he's... Not talking or walking or whatever she thinks he's not normal for.... It makes others think our kids with disabilities.... Arnt normal. Which is the one thing all of us SEN parents are striving to show that they are just kids like any other kid!!!! They aren't abnormal because of their disabilities. Kaytee has constantly compared her son and makes out he's not "normal".
This is supposedly a disability advocate. The "voice" of the SEN community. A community that's trying so hard to cut stigma and words being used to make us more distant from what society classes as "normal".
Her stories tonight are a complete joke.
She knows it's been ad after ad recently. People didn't follow her for ads they followed her for her son. And he seems to have packed his bags this weekend and gone off. Hopefully to be played with and looked after. Guessing he's at his dad's or... Carers have him. Whilst she's dolled up, in her merc, probably on her way for a shag or see friends.
Today there's been a HUGE loss of followers. Is this desperate content to try and clutch at her followers? Or hang on... The ad for the online magazine app in the middle of all the stories... The woman is unreal!
She won't talk about tattle on her stories because she knows people will come to see and then they'll see the truth.
I can guarantee something big is coming. She's blamed "trolls" in the past for the reason her son ends up in hospital. I think she knows she's out of her depth a little here. She will know of this thread. And she will HATE that she cannot take to her stories ranting and raving showing her nasty, thinks she's a gangsta don't mess with me I'm kaytee bullshit. She can't take to stories crying over tattle. She wants to. That's her nature.
But instead what is the next big thing? Damage limitation. Deleting posts. Deleting past twitter and fb accounts. Bringing what's left of the SEN community that follows her to her by talking about this latest discussion.
Her bio pisses me off. If it's not acceptable to be racist, sexist, elitist and so on, it's not acceptable to be ableist. She wants to be woke, the voice of the send community, the send advocate etc, yet when do we see a black mom having a bio that says "mom to black kids". We dont. If she wants to be completely PC and setting a example, educating people on what's right and what isnt, should she write that shes the cheerleader to the medically complex Jaxon? Why refer to him as being medically complex instead of just her son. Is there any need to have it in your bio? It's being ableist straight away, imagine if moms started writing in their bios ''mom to normal kids" - she would be doing stories about it. I know alot in the send community do put things in their bios, but doesnt it go against the message we are all trying to put across to people, to treat our kids no differently. Our children's needs do not define us as parents, youre just a parent of a child, theres no need to spell things out in your bio. As you have said, kaytee often refers to other children as "normal", shes one of the biggest advocates for promoting ableism in my opinion. She is setting the wrong example to everyone who follows. She has no experience of parenting any child other than Jaxon, she cant speak about able bodied/neuro typical children because she has zero experience, yet one of her biggest things she does when she wants sympathy is to compare children. When she jumped on the BLM movement, she would do the "I am learning, I want to do better, I have no experience of racism as I'm white, Its not my place to teach you" line, that most white influencers were doing at the time, but she feels she can talk about and compare what shes deems "normal" children to those with disabilities. Its virtually the same thing, dont talk about "normal" children if you dont parent them. I'm using the word "normal" in reference to how she uses it, please dont read this and think its what I call children. Shes ableist, shes not exempt from being ableist just because she has Jaxon. My name on here is Sendparent. I never use that terminology on instagram when speaking of myself, I'm just a parent like any other, I purposely used that name so when she looks at this she can see I'm one of the send community that she talks about.
are you keeping close tabs so that you can control the narrative?