The Unlikely Dad

[Rippedjeanmaybe]

They’ve really turned that child into an insufferable little brat who opens other people’s gifts and blows out other people’s candles. They have literally raised him to believe that he’s the centre of the universe. These might seem small things to them, but ultimately they’re just reinforcing that he’s the most important person in the world and it’s going to backfire when he’s an adult and too much of a high maintenance diva to function in the real world.

 

[Howdy]

It must be because of his job, it's certainly not to protect his kid since id recognise Kai if I saw him on the street! As would anyone with internet access.

Yes none of these 'influencers' can ever claim to be driven by privacy for their kids!

 

[KiKiGreen]

He’s so far removed from reality

 

[lh01]

What shit will Kai get for his birthday and how many videos of him screaming, snatching and tantruming will be dubbed over by Because you loved me by Celine fucking Dion

 

[OhhBacon]

The man is a prize twat. I had a rather ‘interesting’ DM conversation with him over the weekend

Spill.....

 

[Rippedjeanmaybe]

Oh the irony of him saying that they don’t teach you this sort of thing in parenting school, would you actually listen to it if they did Tom? Because from our observations, you do you and you don’t follow any advice...

Sad reality is he is never going to learn, he’s spoilt and pandered to and they don’t have enough boundaries, simple as

 

[Nixen]

And now he’s up for a ‘positivity award’ by someone who presumably doesn’t have children / any common sense

 

[Johnnoijones]

It's sad. But it does highlight that what 'influencers' decide to post and share with us is the perfect version of their lives making our lives feel inadequate.

 

[Rippedjeanmaybe]

I remember a vid from Christmas where they dropped presents off to family and Kai pulled a cracker with his baby cousin (maybe two or so) the baby won and Kai ripped the cracker from his hand and shoved the empty bit at him all the while fucking surrender was playing as the family crooned.

They are doing him no favours.

'He will be a dancer' he flings himself around the living room like every six year old hyped up on lollies and jam sandwiches. Catch yourself on man

It’s the same with birthday and Christmas presents, he always opening other people’s. He needs to learn the world doesn’t revolve around him.

 

[AliceInWanderLost]

Originally he said he wouldn’t share Kai’s diagnosis as he said it was “his story to share”, but now he’s a full time flogger he’s decided to tell everyone that Kai has ADHD.

I still don’t think that quite explains most of the rudeness and disrespectful behaviour that he’s shown from him, that’s probably more down to their attitudes.

Just a shame how the carrot gets dangled and they take it. Kids can’t have privacy now.

wow, that was a huge u-turn! he's made such a huge deal previously about how he won't share details about Kai's history or medical details because it's not his to share - i assume he realised that other influencers who exploit every detail of their child's life on SM, especially diagnoses of autism, ADHD etc results in a huge boost in audience and support, plus potentially more brand work and ads, so he's decided that disrespecting Kai's privacy is worth the financial benefits!

the way he's spoken about Kai's struggles previously, at school etc, i assumed he had a diagnosis of ASD - obvs I'm no professional, but based on the details he has shared, i didn't think a diagnosis ADHD would fit, especially the way he has attempted to claim that Kai's split and brattish behaviour is the result of him feeling overwhelmed etc, and not just because he has been brought up to always get his own way and neither of his parents ever saying no to him!

 

[Justanothermumoninsta]

I used to follow & to begin with - it was lovely to see their adoption journey but soon tired of all the idealistic posts of countryside walks & diy.

I agree re. over sharing - for children in general but particularly for an adopted child; you don’t know who is watching you on social media

 

[SilverSpoonNotIncluded]

Nah they’re old just let them die so we can go for brunch

 

[Rippedjeanmaybe]

I know the rules don’t come in until tomorrow, but I’m just really surprised that they’re having a group picnic with at least ten of them with none of them social distancing and them all being from different households. I can’t see them following the new rules from tomorrow, not a chance.

 

[Nixen]

Bet you £20 they still see people

 

[KiKiGreen]

Then let’s his kid on the play equipment, I mean I know it’s only a day early but you know follow the bloody rules! Mine are desperate to go to the play park x

Didn't you hear? Rules don’t apply to Kai hun

 

[Sp20191]

It also annoys me how he constantly has to justify why he’s sending Kai to school...if you have made that decision about your child, own it, don’t make others feel bad for not sending their kids in and don’t justify your reasons!

 

[Rippedjeanmaybe]

Oh no, the petition has been shared again, there is no doubt that this time we will be closed down. Yawn!!

Don’t they realise though that when they call us names that makes them as bad? I mean they’re calling us vile low life bullies when they don’t even know us? Has it ever occurred to them that maybe we just get irritated by some of the shit they spout?

 

[KiKiGreen]

Wonder why he put Kai to school when they both work from home don’t they?

 

[Fourcatsandadog2]

They definitely went in December because they let Kai grab hold of the Christmas stuff that clearly said ‘do not touch’. What Kai wants, Kai gets......

 

[OhhBacon]

Crying laughing at this. He has stood on on a platform and set up his phone to record himself pacing around on the platform.
I'd love to meet his to ex in a pub, I'm getting the feeling he is is utterly to feed up with living the influencer life!