My heart breaks for Jackson, I thought from about 2 my LO had ADHD we would joke how did 2 Sloths have a Cheetah, she would never listen, had bags under her eyes because she would refuse to go to sleep gave up naps at 13 months, we would try everything but we would still correct behaviour probably more then I would have wanted because for years I felt all I did was nag her, my in laws parrot has learnt OH Annie, stop Annie. no Annie (not real name) because they heard it so much. I did this because its a tough poo world and people won't excuse you poor behaviour in school, work etc. We are looking at secondary school and one has a SENCO room and I don't want her going there because she will abuse it and it doesn't happen when you are an adult. I will admit I would sometimes feed her up until 4 but that was because she didn't want to sit down to eat, we would have to give her a phone and feed her (judge away). Now back to my original comment I say that because they can see there is a "differences" and are doing nothing about it, they are not preparing that little boy for anything. I only have the one child and I made sure she knew what was mine, what was hers etc. I never took her to those baby clubs as I was really struggling with post natal depression, SEVERE anxiety and leaving the house would scare me but she learnt to share, take turns and play together because that's what you have to teach your children. Lucky well not lucky due to the circumstances but due to my mental health she was given a slot at a nursery for 2 days of the week and she flourish, absolutely loved it and it helped me too. It would have done so much for Jackson and Jen because having a child like that is mentally exhausting. Funnily enough on that holiday we found the baby melatonin still did naff all. Second picture just sums her completely. If you guyyyzzzz really do read these stop being asshats, put Jackson first and get the support that suit him better, it isn't you and its not the nannies. It doesn't get easier as they grow, the battles become harder. Put the work in now or you will regret it.
